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Hi, I’ve recently had bilateral reconstruction and have started to think about whether or not to have nipples or not. I just wondered if anyone has any advice or words or wisdom? I’m not even sure what options there are? Would be good to hear what experience others have had.
G.

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I rather fancy the idea of a 3D tattoo. It will look like there is something there but won’t stick out in cold weather. Apparently tattoo parlours do them!!! (I might need a few stiff drinks first though)

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Hi GLR,
I had a nipple reconstruction about 10 days ago. There’s a thread I started called “Are you happy with your nipple reconstruction” which has a few comments on and also I’ve now added my recent experience to that thread. I still have a dressing on which will be taken off this Wed (will report back on the thread after that) and then I can have a tattoo in three months. x

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Hi GLR,

In answer to the “or not” part of your question, I’ve had a reconstruction using an abdominal flap, plus a resection of the other breast, but have decided not to go for a new nipple.

I know that some people would find this a strange decision, especially as I still have one original one, and am therefore asymmetric. However, I am absolutely delighted with my reconstruction as it is, and actually find the smooth contours quite aesthetically pleasing. I think a new nipple would potentially spoil that, plus I don’t particularly want any further intervention, and as it would be for appearance only it seems a little pointless - the only people who would ever see it apart from medical staff are my husband and myself - and we both know!

I’m sure you’ll have lots of advice relating to the “yes, go ahead” option, and there is no particular time deadline for a decision like this, so hopefully you’ll have plenty of food for thought to make the decision that is right for you.

Best wishes,
J
x

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Hi J,
Thanks for you reply, I actually think at the moment I am probably swinging towards not getting them done. Although I imagine my mind will probably change again and again before I make a final decision and for once there is no need to make a quick decision which is nice. To be honest my old nipples were always inverted and not that amazing anyway so I don’t feel I’m missing much! At the moment I’m still so chuffed just to have my new boobs so I’ll take my time thinking about it.
Gill. x

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Thanks Lola, I’ll check it out.

Valee, not sure I’m brave enough for that option! Can you imagine the poor tattoo artists faced with my nipple free new boobs!!