My partner is a musician and he has a new singer/partner , this is a woman I have never met, I am not jealous just feel abit put out, I had chemo weds last of 6 so side effects kicked in not pleasant. He went out to 3 am with her, which is fine except he did not text or call to check I was ok and said he was having a good time so didn’t think too, I was very upset and it made me feel a bit sick, I aso have 2 children (15 and 12) who aren’t his biologically and this weekend one weekend I thought he would, we talked about it, sort out food for kids I had already brought it in, I had to prompt and finish the meals and also give him my bankcard to get more as we live finacially separately. I am feeling very undervalued he is pleasant to me and kind. He is off to Spain for a long weekend this week so maybe this will give me some perspective, but right now I feel that I would be better on my own, as I am struggling with him being so tight money wise and making me feel less than, ( this bit is more complicated but it is about sex if i intiated it is always no) sorry it just seems that going through this has highlighted issues already there. I aqm a bit of a control freak so struggle not being able to do stuff.
Thanks