not realising you have breast cancer

i was due to have my breast scan three years ago at the time my young cousin was in hospital with skin cancer i didnt . bother going was too concerned about her she passed away 3 years ago her sister returned to canada 3 months later and had her breast screening to be told she had grade two nodes clear this year it was my turn i weent for screening in october only to be recalled as there was abnomality had cancer removed december nodes clear but grade three so start my chemo thursday 03/02/2011. i did notice a few months before that i had a slight leak from my nipple but was not too concerned thank god for screening or i would have left this surgeon couldnt even feel lump i cant beleive how lucky i have been i am terrified of chemo and losing my hair etc. but am well prepared to accept all the treatment it is a most horrendous time and i really dont think people realise what you are going through it is like swings and roundabouts i hope everyone is well and i wish you all the very best take care god bless haribo

Hi Haribo, first of all I’m sorry you have been dx with bc but you will find a huge amount of support on this forum. I too noticed a change in my breast, prior to being dx. To make matters worse it was my hubby who found the lump, and couldn’t believe I hadn’t noticed it!! Looking back, its always easy to question ourselves but as I said I had noticed that my breast had changed shape but still I didn’t think to examine myself. Anyway, like yourself had my op in December, results in January Grade 3, but nodes were clear. Actually started my chemo yesterday, (6 x FEC), early days but so far so good. We get ourselves all anxious and worked up and when we actually get the treatment it’s totally doable. I’m using the cold cap to try and keep my hair, its worth a try? Good luck and take care Donna xxx.

Hi Haribo and welcome to the BCC forums where I am sure you will continue to receive lots of support

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I am posting a link to the BCC publication about chemotherapy which you may find useful, you can order or read a copy via this link:

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Best wishes
Lucy