totally crap news and lets hope its the 5 year option eh! have so much fun and as lily says we made up a fab list to do for a friend in similar situation but im sure you already have one.
you are an inspiration, kick its ass!!! xx
Really sorry to hear your c**p news but so love the attitude! Hope the treatment helps and you can smash those statistics! Di x
Just to echo everyone else really, Pash. So sorry to hear about your shite news, especially at this time of year. I think I would have been well swearing, too. I have read your posts and you are such an upbeat lady. Keep being you and if you can, do something you have always wanted to. Your in my thoughts and I will be preying it’s the 5yr prognosis and longer
Hi Pash, I know everyone is different but I was given a 50% chance of surviving 2 years…and that was in the year 2000!!! I am still here and not planning to go anywhere soon. May your spirits keep you ticking along for many years to come. How you cope with such a diagnosis at your age I do not know, but you are plucky Pash, so try to keep strong. We all love you so much and are rooting for you. Love Val X
Hi Pash - Haxted here. Bit of a bummer this IBC isn’t it? Haven’t posted for a while 'cos I’ve had a “shock” too; thought I would get a bit of a break after radiotherapy like you probably thought you would get a break after surgery. I’ve come to the conclusion that that was MY mistake - thinking I could guess the course of this journey! I DO do prayers & know that miracles DO happen. There is always Hope.PM me if you would like to meet for a coffee at Poole Hosp during rads etc - looks like I’m going to be there a bit too…
Haxted - hope you are okay…
Theresa x
p.s Pash - given restrictions on driving now, also PM me if I can help out getting you there & back for rads? Gotta stick together; we’re unique in Poole!
Hi Pash, i am so sorry to read your news, this is such a cruel disease. I hope you continue to be the strong lady that you are, and give it a damn good kicking.
take care
annaxx
So sorry to hear your bad news Pash, it really is s**t. Good to see you taking it with your usual PMA. Research has shown that it does make a difference to the quality of life you can have while living with cancer. It’s only my opinion but I think it doesn’t matter so much how much time you have but what you do with it. I’m busy sorting out my life on that basis too. Get your list sorted and go for it (and don’t worry about how to pay for it either). If a miracle treatment appears in the meantime so much the better. There are a lot of good break throughs happening at the moment so who knows.
Please keep posting. There are a lot of us on this journey with you. Your humour and zest for life do make a difference to us and hopefully we can help you through any bad times.
Haxted - how are you?
love Jan xxx
Sorry - don’t want to hijack Pash’s thread but will most certainly answer kind enquiries elsewhere soon if that’s okay?! Issues a tad unresolved at mo…
Hugs and best wishes Haxted. Come back when you’re ready.
Jan xx
Thank you so much for all your lovely messages. The screen makes my eyes go screwy so just wanted to say hi and bye and be back when I’m up to it!
Haxted - this dumb ass system won’t let me PM you - PM me if you can and hopefully we’ll get to catch up soon x
Have just PMd you (I think!) Said it was sucessful!
Pash - and now Haxted too - thinking of you both.
Take care
Anthi x
Pash, such bloody crap news, you are an inspiration to us all, sending you a very large hug
love
Carol xx
Pash
Like everyone else I am so sorry to hear your absolutely c**p news. You are such a forthright person and I take my hat off to you for saying it as it is for you. Stay that way. Pash must be Pash!!
Andie
Oh Pash how crap! When you talked before about your symptoms I kept my fingers crossed for you, it obviously didn’t work and I’m so sorry.
You are an astounding lady and must do what is right for you so, be positive and start a war against this bloody disease. I wish I had your PMA and take my hat off to you.
Hope the sickness and pain eases quickly and you have good success with the rads.
Haxted, best wishes to you too.
Take care
Ohh Pash sickening news for you - I have taken lots of PMA from you over the last few months - you have been an inspiration for me when all seemed very dark - I pray your PMA is stronger than your news and can lift you out of the darkness too - miricles happen and odds are beaten every day - I suspect you have smashed a few challenges before - I guess eveyone with this dam IBC hopes for the same for themselves and you -
I have date for surgery in Poole Harbour Hosp 27th Jan now last chemo completed - feel very scared and not as plucky as you.
Sending my love and hugs and strength to those who are comforting you.
Dee Dee XX
Hi
Sorry to hear your news, I have read your posts before and love your quirky sense of humour. Wish you all the best for your future treatment and hope it is kind to you.
All the best
Linda
Hi Pash…what rubbish news…I read your posts on another thread and was happy that you were so positive. I know that, not everyone feels that way…I try to… and I think if it works for you then you go for it girl! You are the one dealing with this…and as you say, its your journey…{{hugs}}
Helenxxx