Hello there, I wondered if anyone could help me. I’m 25 and was diagnosed with breast cancer last week. I know nobody else with this disease and feel completely alone. This website was suggested to me but I can not seem to work out how to reach people. I am fast losing hope and feel in limbo awaiting further tests to discover the extent of the cancer before they operate. I have started to convince myself that I am bound just to die ,though i know no details of my chances, just have to wait 
Hi bubbliejubblies,
Welcome to the Breast Cancer Care discussion forums, where I’m sure you will get a lot of support from the other users of this site. While you’re waiting replies, here is a link to information and support services provided by BCC specifically aimed at younger women:
breastcancercare.org.uk/server/show/nav.349
I have also attached a link to information on BCC’s Peer Support Service. This is a telephone based support service provided by trained volunteers, offering another way to make contact with others who have been through breast cancer treatment:
breastcancercare.org.uk/server/show/nav.518
Please do also remember that the Breast Cancer Care Helpline offers support and information. Calls to the Helpline are free, lines are open Mon – Fri 9am to 5pm and Sat 9am to 2pm.
I hope this is useful.
Kind regards,
Kate, BCC Facilitator
Hi Bubblie,
I’m so sorry to hear you have been diagnosed with Breast Cancer, I was diagnosed 5 weeks ago and I’ve thought about death alot, I promise you it’s normal but you have to try and think positive! You will hear of so many good stories on here that will help you and encourage you!
Also use the breast cancer helpline,they know their stuff and will help to awnser any questions you have - as I dialed the number, I felt like such a loooser for calling a “helpline” but seriously it does help!
I wish you all the best and I will pray for you!
Sam x
Sorry you have to join use Bubblie,but you will find lots of people who will help and support you on this site. The waiting is the worst,but it will soon be over.And there is nothing wrong in having a good cry…its normal Best of luck Jellylegs xx
Hi there bubbliejubblies
Welcome to the forums. I’m 28 and was diagnosed in April 09. I had surgery in May and am now undergoing chemo (had my 5th out of 6 cycles today).
I can relate to all of your worries and fears, as can all of the other lovely ladies who use this online forum. I’ve been given a wealth of brilliant advice and info on here, and connected with lots of great girls of all ages and experiences.
I remember how hard it was when I was diagnosed… trying to comprehend the sledgehammer that is BC!! The “not knowing” is hard, but once you have surgery and treatment plans in place, things move forward very quickly, and the experts will take great care of you.
Stick at these forums, they’re fab. And PM (personal message) me if you have any questions, etc.
Take big care of you.
AM x
Hey Matey,
I think I’ve been on another post you’re on too. I’ve just got info through for a weekend away (free) in Birmingham on Oct 17/18th for girlies like us- age 20-45 (I’m 29) to meet and stuff. There are various workshops etc and a Health Spa. I get my results on Tuesday from my Lumprectomy and assuming they don’t start Chemo straight away I plan to go. I think it sounds like the sort of thing you need at the mo, I certinly do.
There are other ones run throughout the year at different places but I was keen to go on this one before anymore treatment starts. Def worth a look I think.
Everyone will say the same thing to you, the waiting is the worst thing, please try and stay positive. I recommend you just get out there and do loads of things you love doing. In between getting my diagnosis and my lumpectomy I made sure I went surfing, sailing, spent 4 hours at pineapple dance studios and loads of other stuff I love and might potentially not be able to do for the next few months.
I can’t get on my profile half the time or look at anyone elses but if you want to chat or just need to rant at someone in the same boat, please do contact me.
Take care
Em x