Oh crikey! a bit late to your birthdays, Ali & Jo.
Have a lovely day
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Hope you had a lovely birthday Jo xxx
Jo
Happy 50th birthday, hope you have had a wonderful day and been really spoiled.
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So sorry I’m late, but very many happy returns to Jo and Alibobs, hope youve both been celebrating in the way you love the most.
ive been upto to my eyes playing nurse Ratchet and over dosing on The Handmaids series 1, caught up on episode 1 of series 2, just episode 2 to got then I’m upto date, horrifying and gripping xx
Ahh thank you so much ladies! ? was throughly spoiled by everyone yesterday and now finishing off the packing before flying off on hols in the morning ?
? Feeling very blessed Xx
So this was the menu from our birthday lunch today at Adams Restaurant in Birmingham. Totally and absolutely awesome, what a way to start the lead up to my birthday. xxx
Gosh it is quiet on here tonight, everyone must have been enjoying the lovely weather today xxx
Hi all, thanks Claire and Helena 
I’m feelin quiet uncomfortable today after a rough night. The drain is stinging and the staples in my wound pulling, feeling overtired and grouchy but going out for lunch with a few girlfriends will cheer me up. I’m seeing the surgeon this afternoon and will find out how many lymph nodes were cancerous. Then oncologist tomorrow to work on treatment plan. Nervous … yep.
Also the sentence hearing for the driver that hit Tone was last Monday and although we accepted the sentence (didn’t go to court because we chose not too) both adult kids are angry. Winter has hit here but you lovely friends on the other side of the road would be laughing at us. Xxx
8 out of 26 lymph nodes had cancer. Level 1 and 2 cleared and biggest lump (the one I felt) was at the top so chances are there will be cells in level 3 so will be having chemo. Scary times but so relieved I found the lump and followed up so quickly xx
Lovely to hear from you, Lee & thank goodness - as you say - that this was picked up so promptly & can now be dealt with.
Sending loads of best wishes to you both, you’ve certainly had some challenges over the past year. Do hope the kids are ok, although it’s not surprising they’re feeling angry, in view of what you’ve both been through.
ann ?
Thanks Ann ?
Hopefully things will start picking up soon. Just doing one day at a time at the moment xx
Lee, sending big hugs to you. Enjoy your lunch with girlfriends. You’ve got a journey ahead of you and I’m sure they will be holding your hand along with your family and us lot will ge too albeit virtually xx
Postman has just been, yippee, move over Neddies and make room for one more. I cannot tell you how relieved I am, was so anxious this time. Himself has just told he too has been worrying about it. He had a good day yesterday, sat on the patio for a couple of hours in the morning before it got too hot aand after managed a shower standing up (he’s been on his knees in there’s until now). I was so proud pointing out my gardening achievements. I’ve planted all the wall pots plus the couple of flower beds we have left, weeded and pruned and generally kept things tidy, just need the bloke to come and cut the grass this week, I’m feeling very smug xx
Lee I’m so glad your being looked after and you have a plan in place I’m always around for a hand hold or hug all be it virtual ?
I can totally understand you not wanting to go to court you’ve all been through enough and sadly emotions sometimes get the better of us and I’m sure your children will understand in the future xxxxxxx
??? Lesley welcome to the Neddy club ???
I don’t think this ever gets easier but thank goodness we’ve got each other for support ?
I’m very proud of you too for getting out in the garden. Glad hubby is on the up too xxx
Lee, I hope you’re feeling a bit more comfortable now. And you can start to plan for the next stage, at least there are plenty of people to go through things at the same time as you. It’s not a club you want to be in, but company from the other members can help you through it.
Lesley, good to hear it’s an all clear, and also that himself is on the mend. And you really do sound like a gardener now.
Ruby, I love that, thank you. I told himself earlier that you’d come up with a good pic to celebrate my admitance to the paddock. Just took my iPad into the mancave to show him but the meds (thank heavens for small mercies) have knocked him out . Think I’ll take myself off to bed too, up early for chiro in the morning. Wednesday I’m off to Brick Lane in London, lunch then theatre, won’t be home until about 8pm so will be a late dinner for him but think he’s recovered enough now to survive a day on his own, perfectly able to make a cup of tea now and I’ll leave him sarnies etc in the fridge. Was going to cancel and lose my money but sure he’ll be ok xx
Lee, so sorry you’re going through this again and completely get why court is the last place you want to be.
Lesley say hello to Brick Lane, my old student stomping ground. So pleased to have you in the paddock - hope the hay was still tasty! Love to all xx
Afternoon fluffies
MRI went ok this morning, not something I will be in a hurry to repeat. I went in feet first which I think helped, it was not a noisy as I thought, but I did not have the luxury of any music being played, they said they wanted to be able to talk to me so no they dont do that.
Now the wait begins xxx
Helena thank goodness that bits over hopefully you’ll hear back soon. Tons of love and hugs xxxxx
Helena, at last that bit is over, did they say how long the results will take? Big hugs for you lady, hope you have a nice evening planned.
Xxx