Hi @worried1
Firstly I wanted to signpost you to a HER2+ buddies as you are tripled positive and on Phesgo. It’s a really friendly and supportive bunch.
Hormone therapy can be quite emotive on the forum. We are all individuals and react differently. Some people can have no side effects, some have a few and other can have debilitating side effects that they no longer continue.
The NHS predict gives a % of how much it can benefit you. I have been on Letrozole for a year with horrible side effects but was told that because I was on Herceptin, they couldn’t be sure if it was the AIs or Herceptin causing the issues. 3 months after finishing Herceptin the Sid effects continued and I swapped to Exemestane. This for me is less side effects. I was bilateral with two separate tumours, one in each boob at the same time, which is rarer, so for me staying on them is something I’m trying to do. I do however take about 4 different medications to offset side effects, such as hot surges/flashes, vaginal dryness and aches and pains, to name just a few.
I’m 56 now diagnosed at 54.
I would also suggest using the search icon at the top of the page to see what others have said. I did a post on Letrozole with vaginal dryness and Fezolinetant ( a drug for hot flushes).
Best wishes in your decision.