I’m 43 and last night had my diagnosis confirmed. Grade 2, Est. positive, HER 2 neg, IDC. (Hope that makes sense to someone!!)
Only found the small lump 2 weeks ago today, had the mamagram and ultrasound then biopsy last Sat morning…25mm lump near right nipple, calcification concern on left… needing more tests.
Discussion last night was about drugs, lumpectomy and radiotherapy rather than chemo. Now the wait begins…
As a teacher, with 16 and 22 son’s, and a husband with PD and T1 Diabetes, my life is not to stressful so obviously totally needed something to do at the moment!!!
Looking forward to having others to talk too during the crazy time.
Hi Lunatic21 - I’m really sorry to read about your diagnosis, and the wait for further results. The waiting really is hard isn’t it, but really glad that you have found this forum and hope that you will find lots of support as you go through treatment.
Your list of medical terms does make sense - all too soon you too will be an expert on terminology! I know you didn’t ask, but here’s a quick summary - you might want to look on BCN website for further info if you want it or you can ignore if you don’t want details, some people don’t. BCN explains the grades as how they compare to normal breast cells. Oestrogen positive means the cancer is fed by oestrogen and that you will probably be given a hormone drug, such as Tamoxifen, at the end of treatment. HER negative - means it doesn’t have a type of protein present (I think, I’m more confused about this one as mine also negative). IDC - stands for “Invasive ductal carcinoma”, the most common and means it started in the ducts.
Some people find it easier to chat on here than to family and friends, as people on here just “get it” without you having to explain. Please ask if I or others can help with any questions or if you just want to offload.
I’m sorry you find yourself writing on this forum due to your diagnosis. However I’m sure you will find it a great source of support and advice, I definitely have.
I am also 43 years old and I was diagnosed with invasive breast cancer (3 tumours), grade 3, oestrogen positive in October 2020. I also have 2 sons, both early teens and I work in a school(Teaching Assistant)! I found I was in a whirlwind of information plus mamagrams, ultra sounds, biopsy’s, breast MRI scan all going on and all happening so quickly. So I appreciate it’s so much to take in at this point.
I’m sending you many positive vibes, take care of yourself and if I can help with anything regarding your surgery/treatment let me know.