Hopefully you will not have to see the same oncologist again. If you are happy with your original breast surgeon then stay where you are and if you do have to see that oncologist again, just remember that this is someone who has a cold manner and that they will probably whack you with worst case scenarios again.
Try clicking on this link - HER2+ and need some buddies - #4657 by anb1
There are so many people on there that you will have masses of support on a daily basis. X