Hi there, I am 6 weeks post surgery, and
I guess I am in that strange place where the big physical stuff is passed, and I look great (apparently, I keep being told)! But my breasts feel swollen and tender, and I am needing to wear a larger bra than in the first weeks post surgery - which I guess I wasn’t expecting, I had large boobs before my surgery and was expecting them to be the same or more likely smaller… and as the day progresses I get more pain under my arm pit and down my arms, especially the right, which was were the lymph node biopsy was. I am trying to listen to my body and rest more, as early in the day I am up and about pottering, and I do have good support from friends and family, and lots of visitors, but I am finding I need to lie down, to ease the soreness under my arms. I am a bit discouraged to still need pain killers later in the day. I am getting mixed advice on the arm exercises. I feel I should keep them up, but it is hard to get a consistent answer from the consultants and breast care team. They are really great, they just give varying advice on some things, particularly the arm exercises.
I have good movement in my arms, and good mobility, but the pain and breast swelling and tenderness seemed to have increased over the last week or so, and I was afraid I was overdoing it with them…
I have no doubt anxiety and a bit of the emotional piece is starting to play a role in how I am feeling. I feel so very, very lucky to be in the position I am in, i.e. no further treatment needed, minimal cancer present initially and it is now removed, risk reducing double mastectomy surgery and immediate implant reconstruction all went really well, but after 6 weeks I am just starting to really miss my active, energetic life and body. And am I sick of being in pain and not knowing the right way to address it. I am still not driving as my new breasts are very tender, perhaps worse than a couple of weeks ago, and the seatbelt and bumps on the road when I am being driven, seem to hurt me worse now than they did a couple of weeks ago. I guess I am wondering if this is normal.
Any advice or similar experiences would be great.
Thanks so much,
xx