Referral Tomorrow

Hi everyone

 

This is my first post, so apologies for the rambling!

 

Tomorrow is my referral appointment to the breast clinic. I’ve been living with progressively worsening breast pain now for 3/4 months, and it’s now accompanied by several lumps in and between my boob and my armpit, ranging from the size of a pea up to a large marble. Before I saw the docs, I went through the usual suspects first so they wouldn’t just dismiss it, changed bra types (several times over), checked it wasn’t period/illness/injury related, cut out caffeine, but nothing helped. The pain is at the stage where pain killers do absolutely nothing, and I’m left crying in agony or feeling like I’m going to be sick 80% of my day. 

 

My gp said she wasn’t worried about cancer (I’m “too young” at 33 apparently) but she wanted to rule it out before anything else. When I asked what else could cause the symptoms, she had no reply, and she pushed me to get an updated smear test done too even though I wasn’t due one. That’s when I really started worrying. 

 

 

Tomorrow is only the start, I know that if they want to do tests, I’ll have to wait until next week so that’ll be another weekend of general panic and anxiety with every ache and pain. But my biggest worry is when I see the consultant that they will decide not to investigate, and I’ll be left in this limbo. I just want to know what is causing this, as the idea of being in this much pain for even one more week without answers is terrifying. 

 

No one around me seems to understand why I’m so worried even after explaining it all (I’ve done a good job hiding just how bad things are apparently), and I just feel so alone.

 

Sorry for going on, I’m just hoping that by this time tomorrow I’ll feel a little less lost than I do right now.

Thanks for reading x

 

TheRC1

 

Hello and welcome.  It is always a very anxious time waiting for your appointment, but try to keep in mind that there are a lot of benign breast conditions and the main thing is that you are being seen.  We can all relate to exactly how you are feeling, unfortunately when anxiety kicks all rational thinking goes out the window,

 

Let us know how you get on

 

Sending you hugs

 

Helena xxx

Thanks Helena x

Unfortunately, consultant found a substantial lump at the site of all the pain, one I hadn’t even realised it was there. He dismissed the other lumps as fatty deposits, but wasn’t sure what this new one is. So back in next week now for ultrasound and possible biopsy, he said he doesn’t think it’s anything to worry about but wants it checked out as soon as possible. And I’ve been told to try evening primrose oil in the mean time to see if that has any effect.

So still in limbo for now, but at least I’m a step forward…

How did it go? Thrci