I have posted this on behalf of new user Larua
Best wishes Sam (BCC Facilitator)
I am new to the site, but on reading everyone’s comments am overwhelmed by how much advice people that are going through the same thing give each other!!
My mum was diagnosed with breast cancer 6 years ago and had a mastectomy of the left breast. She was not given chemo or radiotherapy after this and was given the all clear!
Then 3 years ago she developed a cough which just wouldn’t go away, and after going to the doctor, being referred to the hospital, and having CT scans she was told her breast cancer had developed into secondary lung cancer. She was given FEC at this time, and whilst was very tired and lost her hair, she was not sick at all, which was a blessing.
At the same time she was told she had secondary bone cancer and still to this day receives bone treatment for this. The oncologist has told us that the bone cancer is not really anything to worry about as it can be treated for years.
Last February I was on holiday when mum was having a routine CT scan, and when I came back she told me that the cancer had now spread as secondary breast cancer into her liver. She commenced more chemo, intravenous, and after another scan the tumours had shrank. Yippeee!!
However only two weeks ago we have been told the tumor has grown by at least 4 times it’s size, and there are also more deposits in the liver. She commenced Taxotere last Thursday and seemed to be fine, until Saturday! She went out to the shops and collapsed while there with terrible pains in her side, and above her right arm. The emergency doctor told us that it is classic liver enlargement signs. Mum’s cancer nurse has told her that this is to be expected however they didnt want to tell her that initially incase she didnt get this side effect, and was waiting on it to happen.
There are so many different forums here, and it seems that there are so many people talking about Taxotere being horrific, but if anyone can give advice it would be much appreciated.
I have always been so strong throughout this happening to mum, I am an only child, and last year my grandmother, mum’s mum passed away, which left a huge hole in our life. She used to help me be strong, as I did her, and now that she is not here I am struggling with coping with things. I am terrified something bad is going to happen to mum and after her bad experience on Saturday - really shook up. My Dad wont talk to me about it, but on Saturday he telephoned me to tell me about mum and was in tears on the phone.
Sorry if this sounds all about me and not the person dealing with the cancer, but I really would like some advice if anyone can give me it.
Laura