I just want to run past you my recent experiences in the oncology unit and want to know, whether I have unrealistic expectations, or whether I have cause for a complaint. I don’t really want to make a formal complaint, but feel that I need to air my grievances with the hospital. I have considered phoning PALS and asking their opinion, what do others think? I have spend his afternoon trying to contact the onc’ secretary but the phone never gets answered.
My consultant is well respected, yet I rarely see him, When I was first diagnosed with secondaries, I waited over 3 hours as is usual and ended up seeing one of the registrars. He was fine, I had no problem with him, but he kept going out to ask the oncologist questions before deciding on my treatment. I must admit I was surprised not to see the main man at this so important appointment. The following appts I have always seen a registrar. I did see the consultant very briefly when I was referred on for surgery rather than rads to my hip (although my appt wasn’t with him the registrar went to get him for his 2 minute opinion!)
When liver mets were diagnosed, it was at an appt with the registrar, who said I had to make another appt with the consultant to change my treatment. Surprise surprise after an even longer wait the next week, it was a registrar I saw and he changed my treatment. I was told in February that I would need another scan in 3 months. I was sent a consultant appt, but no scan (I had to cancel this because I was in hospital, I asked them to send a new appt – it never arrived. ) I saw the registrar at my rads planning and asked if the CT had been booked he said no and that he’d book it…he didn’t. At my Zometa appt the registrar was there but I didn’t have an appt. I left a note asking him to book a CT…didn’t hear anything. I phoned the onc’s secretary and I received an appt for a CT scan in June, which I had. (only 1 month late) but the results are another thing! - apparently the first appointment I can get to have the results is 31st August !) 10 WEEKS after the CT scan! I was told the oncologist is on holiday, but I NEVER see him anyway, why can’t somebody else give me my results? Is it worth asking if they will send me a copy of the report (knowing that they won’t, or ask my GP surgery if they can access it!) I still have no idea whether the faslodex is working!
Also my last 2 appointments have been cancelled when I got there, after rads was an exception because the reg had to rush off because his wife had gone into labour, but the appt they made for me 2 weeks later at my Zometa clinic, no Dr was there at all! To add to this the registrars will be all moved around next month, so it’ll be more people who don’t know me!
I just wanted experiences to compare this with, How many of you regularly see the same oncologist? I don’t think my oncologist would even recognise me or knows anything about me. I certainly don’t have a relationship with him. Can I request that I see him for some of my appointments?
Surely secondaries should be treated with more urgency, as a secondary BC patient do I have any right to actually see a fully qualified oncology consultant. I have no BC nurse (they don’t DO secondaries here) and wouldn’t know who to talk to if I had a problem – if it wasn’t for you lot I would be completely in the dark about my cancer.
Sorry this is so long and waffly- the moans just keep on coming.