I have been told today that I have to start a course of chemotherapy( TAC) in mid July, I know I will lose my hair and know all of the possible side effects to expect, but to be honest I am frightened to my very core and feel like running off into the hills to hide, I know I have to be brave but it is very hard and my situation is compounded by the fact that my husbands first wife died of breast cancer( 20 years ago now) but I feel I have to be strong for him and show no weakness outwardly, but inside I am a jibbering wreck.
Hello 26pammy
Welcome to the forums, this must be a very worrying time for you but you have come to the right place for support from our experienced users who I’m sure will be along to support you soon.
You may like to talk things through with a member of our helpline staff who are there to offer emotional support as well as practical information. The free phone number is 0808 800 600 and the lines are open again in the morning at 9.00. Normal hours are Monday to Friday 9.00 to 5.00 and Saturday 9.00 to 2.00.
Best wishes
June, moderator
Thankyou I may need someone to talk to soon once the treatment gets going.x
Hi 26pammy,
I know exactly how you are feeling. Im seeing my Oncologist tomorrow to find out my start date for Chemo. I know I will be having TAC. Still can’t believe this is happening and have to stop my thoughts spiralling out of control about hair loss, and all the other side effects.
I have found this web site to be a life saver when Im having a really bad day and the ladies on it are so supportive and helpful.
I have found taking 1 step at a time and day by day a helpful suggestion.
Maybe we can support each other and any other ladies starting chemo about the same time. Do ring the helpline,I have a couple of times they will understand and in there wisdom have helped put things in perspective. I hope somebody has reassurred your husband about how advanced BC treaments are now.
Love
Lyn x x x
Hi Pammy and Lyn,
I started a course of 6 TAC in May. I had TAC3 today.
I understand your fears but for me the thought was much worse than the deed. If I can answer any questions (there’s not so many women on here that seem to be having TAC) please either message me or post on here.
I’m happy to answer anything
Big hugs
Smiles xx
Hi Pammy
Feel the same. But we will all be ok when we get started it is the fear of the unknown. Read lots of the other lovely ladies stories and you will realise we can do it. Take Care. xx