Hi Wendy
This pandemic is a b***** isn’t it? Everything bar the treatment done by phone but, if it’s any consolation, I was introduced to radiotherapy face to face and I hadn’t the foggiest what to ask.
First, hopefully to reassure you, I’ve seen several references to the 5 days v 15 days radiotherapy argument. Some hospitals have moved with the research, some haven’t yet. What I will say is that I am certain your MDT wouldn’t risk any treatment that wasn’t in your best interests.
Second, the treatment. Don’t fear it till you know there’s something to fear! I sailed through it and thought it was a doddle after chemo wiped me out. The worst thing that happened was a small itchy patch front and back, which only lasted a few days. However, we have to acknowledge that some people have different experiences - you just don’t know so why worry about what you can’t do anything about?
Don’t use an antiperspirant throughout the treatment. If you have to, use a crystal deodorant once you get home (you can get them from health food shops and Holland & Barrett). They work as effectively but contain nothing to interfere with the treatment. Similarly, don’t use talc. You will need a cream that is not oil-based. I used the Aqueous BP (from Boots or Amazon) I was given for treating my mastectomy scar. Aveeno and some of the E-45 lotions are as good. Just no oil. Use it generously before you dress after treatment.
You can wear your usual bra but, if you do find you react quite quickly and get sore, common sense will tell you to wear a seamfree support bra or go bra-less if you can. You remove all your upper clothing to swap for a hospital nightie anyway for the treatment. Leave any neck chains you wear at home - it’s easier and safer.
Your first session will be measurements. You just lie back, let them put you into positions with your arm aligned with or above your shoulder. They adjust you by millimetres and them make the marks, first in biro, then 3 tiny tattoos. These will enable them to get you into the same position every day. You may find they are very high-tech and also use a wooden ruler!
The treatment takes less time than undressing does. You lie on the bed, are shifted gently into position, then a part of the machine is wound down according to where the beams are required to go. You hear a faint beam-y noise and then the machine moves on. You may have treatment from different angles, according to your cancer location. Then up you get, go and smooth some cream in and get dressed. Maybe 5 minutes, with 3 minutes of treatment?
Some people experience fatigue so make allowances for that - maybe get someone to take you? You may find by mid-week that you do feel really tired. Don’t push yourself. If you experience any pain or burning sensation, this isn’t unusual but must be reported as it may affect your treatment. Once the week is over, you may wonder what next? It really is a case of wait and see. I experienced burning pain in my breast muscle a couple of months after treatment. This is normal. And the fatigue took a long time to go. Perhaps hardest was knowing that that was that: the treatments were over (apart form the hormone therapy). You can feel a bit at sea. Remember your breastcare nurse is still there for you and any radiotherapy-related concerns go straight to the breastcare nurse attached to that department.
I completely understand this idea of feeling completely alone. It’s an odd feeling. Your husband wants to help but doesn’t know how (well, yours does - make notes!). Be prepared for friends being delighted you’ve finished treatment. Unless they have had breast cancer, they really think it’s over and done with. It’s not. Do you use Breast Cancer Haven? It’s a local charity in 9 regions of the UK but currently they offer online courses via Zoom free of charge and you may find something there to suit your needs. It’s good to be with people who understand what you’re feeling and several courses address things like managing stress.
I think I’ve covered it all. Sorry for going on a bit!
Hope it goes smoothly next week.
Jan x