Storm Riders/A Town Called Determination

Negotiations are what Riviera does best!

We’ve got a full menagerie over the summer. Jackdaws in the disused chimney, squirrels wondering about trying out an old jackdaw box this year (hasn’t made it inside yet Jennie, but there is a gap I’m going to have to fill before they do), pheasants, rabbits and a hare in the garden (eating my brassicas last year, cheeky blighters), a tawny owl roosts in the barn, and we think a barn owl is starting to roost there when the tawny isn’t. We’ve got starling and blue tit nesting so far, and a pair of wagtails were eyeing up the thickest bit of the hedge, but the other species are still just foraging. We’re inundated with swallows from the end of April, including in the kitchen if I leave the door open in warm weather, but we can’t get the house martins to nest so far. A bat forages around over the summer. Frogs and palmate newts in the pond. The odd hedgehog passes through, moles, voles and shrews. There’s a fox hanging around but hasn’t actually come in yet, which is good news for the chickens. We’re wondering when the heron will start feeding out of the pond, and occasionally we get a sparrowhawk trying to nab a bird off the feeder trees. Once the trees come up at the back we should get roe deer sheltering up and more nesting, but that’s a few years off yet.

Phew. It gets pretty hectic some days. :slight_smile:

Theresa, you have just been annexed! Lol. He’s laying claim to your garden as territory and telling all other potential usurpers to stay away. Wait till he starts that racket at dawn. I’ve been hanging out the window chucking slippers at them before now. :smiley:

Are you, in fact, Beatrix Potter?

I love hares, there are loads of them in the fields around my mum’s house. The first time I saw one running along a field I couldn’t figure out what it was it was so huge, I had no idea they were so big!

We also have bats in the garden, I can’t figure out where they roost but I love sitting in the garden at dusk in the summer watching them swoop around.

I am good at negotiation, sometimes I can even make think people believe that what they’ve agreed to was their own idea. :smiley: :smiley:

If only I was as cute as Renee Zellwegger I’d be delighted to have a shot at it! Pots of cash for making up stories.

Hares are amazing. I love watching them, and bats. They’ll be in somebody’s loft space over the summer having babies. The guys hang out separately though, so they could be anywhere.

Ooo, rumbly tumbly. Time for some beans on toast I think.

carole - gawd darn them baddies!!! &*% Typical…but like you say you have a rest - my next one I know is delayed a week due to the line going in which they won’t move on so I’m resigned - actually it’ll be 8 days late as I asked if the thurs would be ok as my friend can help out better on a thursday…
Gen - go camping!! I’ve got a cunning camping plan up my sleeve too but thats another story…!! Mary x
hi Nonny!

Carole, what a bummer. Still, you’ve done pretty well so far, so I’m sure it’s just a brief blip. What you need is a week of pampering. Beatrix Potter? More Bill Oddie methinks. lol.

Gennie, we had a squirrel in our eaves last year. Pesky thing had chewed a hole in the facia and made a nest. Luckily, though, that was the only damage. Friends of ours came back from holiday and thought they’d been burgled - their living room was trashed. They called the police before they eventually realised there was a squirrel behind the curtains. It had fallen down the chimney and panicked when it couldn’t get out!

I don’t want to be a killjoy, but isn’t it a bit cold for camping? Gennie, get the old scrooge to treat you to a night somewhere nice if he can’t make the time for a longer break.

Last year I got my brassicas eaten by pigeons Carole. Darn things. I must rig up some sort of cage thing this year. We’ve got jackdaws too. Blue tits, long tailed tits, a lesser spotted woodpecker the other day, loads of finches and of course seagulls! I love watching the bats at dusk too. A good excuse to sit doing nothing in the evening with a glass of wine. :slight_smile:

Welcome Jennie. Hope everything turns out good for you.

Heh heh, Bill Oddie. You’re such a card. And here was me thinking I’d managed to bleach the beard out and fool you all. :smiley:

Reckon I’ll be building a cage too. OH wants to move the chickens next to the veg patch. He thinks a slightly higher fence will do the job… Oh yes, good thinking, that’ll work.

Wonder what the odds are of sitting out with your wine and having a bat poop fall in on the flyover? Wonder if it’s happened and I just didn’t notice? Had a pigeon poop right on my forehead once. In Italy it’s supposed to be good luck. Outside Glasgow Central I’m not sure what they call it. :smiley:

Sorry to hear your chemo delayed Bill,oops , sorry , Carole, but like you said you can get your strength up that wee bit more and a week isn’t toooooo long ,plenty to do to keep you busy I’m sure.

Hey Sal, don’t think I’d like my brassicas eaten either !

Well… had my first onc appointment today an not quite sure how I feel, didn’t quite pan out as expected…

Didn’t get recommended chemo ,however , I could have it if I wanted…doh ! Am classed as borderline, 15mm grade 2,no nodes involved,100% er and pr +ve,all would point to no chemo only thing that makes it a “possibility” is my age, nearly 45. Over 10 years this would increas my % by 3%. In a same 10 yr period was told re survival rate that 2% don’t make it due to other non cancer reasons, hmmmmmm. My mate from hosp who had same diagnosis as me didn’t even get chemo mentioned,she is ten yrs older. My gut feeling is the same as it was for mastectomy versus lumpectomy, don’t have it unless it is totally necessary, and if they really though I needed it they would have said that. Am more than happy that took the right decision on the surgery so it’s just something that I’ve got to live with.

Then… was all prepared for the tamoxifen, the hospital pharmacy only stocks the generic one whereas I really wanted to try nolvadex d as is meant to carry less side effects,so got stuck with the former,but did get her to check the price… tamoxifen £1.89 nolvadex £8.50 !!! So that’s why you prob just don’t get it supplied willy nilly, see how I get on with what I get ,only a months supply but will be off to g.p to see if can get it changed to nolvadex if it’s causing too much probs.

Did expect then to be told that would have zoladex injections to switch off ovaries but nope , they just give tamoxifen and that is all…so a huge difference there as to what others usually get,will try and see if can find any1 else that only gets tax when pre menopausal.

And finally… was recommended that have my coil taken out ,def as cos 100% er and pr +ve. Are you as +ve as that Gen ? Or is that just another countrywide discrepancy ?

So quite a day out but did have a very nice lunch with my old hospital inmate.

Sandra x

Well a good lunch is a good day!

A lot to take in there Sandra. Phew. Yeehaa! on the size and grade. That’s defo kicking butt! That 'possibility" on the chemo is what my surgeon said too for your size and grade. They swither about it. The ovaries thing is still up there though isn’t it? I am definitely pre-meno and have had no mention of switching off ovaries, only getting tamoxifen, as is my 2 yr vet friend who has pretty much your dx. I think it varies region to region what they do - wish they’d standardise it. As I’m months off starting the tam I haven’t pushed an explanation yet, but I will. As far as I’m concerned, give me the full hysterectomy and be done with a lot of it.

Ooo, this is distracting me from appreciation of my latest Squeeze - Lou Costello. On your sort of recommendation Gen, I got the Abbot and Costello collection. I had forgotten how funny they are, and now that I’m older, how amazingly well done it is. And Lou is just soooooo cute!

Sandra - i’m also pre-menopausal and no zoladex… I think in my case it is because i have IBC… I’ve heard that zoladex can cause the cancer to briefly fire up again and i think that is the last thing they want to risk with IBC…

So does that mean no rads as well…?

I’ve also read that if your er score is really high tamoxifen is much more likely to work for you than chemo… My er score is officially 8/8 although they said it was actually off the chart, and my pr was 6/8.

Hi there everyone…I’ve had a great few days and apart from Saturday, which was almost a hurricane…exagerating slightly…the weather has been lovely. Been for walks on the beach, had class fish and chips, collected only the most beautiful pebbles…hubby couldn’t carry anymore…and just chilled with sister and family, and then just hubby and me!!!phew…Feel tired but the most ‘normalest’…not a proper word… I’ve felt in weeks and weeks! Would recommend a couple days away for all…Have to get a charabang organised!
I have just come on to the site and have loads to catch up on…wow what a lot to read through…
Was thinking about you today Sandra. Yep you have a lot to take in. But no chemo, yeh!!..and as Theresa says…no rads?
I didn’t realise that er and pr were scored…will ask this week.
Right …I’m gonna go back and read all the stuff …cos I don’t wanna miss anything!!! nosy…mmmmm
catch ya soon
Helen

What a bummer Carole, must be well *&^%*^&*^&%^ off but like you say its only a week and better safe than sorry.

Hi Helen - sounds like you have had a brilliant time…:smiley:

I’ve got invasive ductal,and should get my rads appointment through in next two weeks.(15 sessions of them)oohhh had too many points to get down in my last post forgot to mention them !

Have been told that can stay in hostel up there if I want for some of the time as it’s soooo far away but was just reading the info,you gota be in by 9pm at night, lol not much chance for galavanting round the bright lights there. Might just go for a couple of nights in the last week if getting a bit too tired with the driving.

I have no particular affinity with my ovaries and if they gota go then that’s fine by me.

The other thing that we chatted about was re the length of time on hormone treatment,new trials and tests all the time and in the next 5 years will find out if they think we should be on them for ten years ! Ooooh the joys of that ! Going to get my tamoxifen tomorrow so April the first will be a day to remember.

Hey Helen,glad you had a great break and feeling most normalest.Good to have you back tho.

Hi Jane…:smiley:

Sandra - did they give you any idea of how long it might be before the rads start…? My bcn and onc said it was likely really that i am now on tamoxifen / whatever they produce next for life.

Brilliant Sandra. You’re results are exactly the same as mine, except my bc is invasive lobular. My onc said for me tam would increase my chances by 2.5%, as would chemo. As far as chemo is concerned, she said the risks outweigh the benefits and I’m more than happy with that. :smiley: I’m premenopausal too, but at 52 I don’t know for how much longer. lol So they’ll test me again in 2 years and switch me to an aromatase inhibitor if I’m post menopausal then. As Theresa said, the more ER+ you are, the better the tam will work. I got the generic tam too - no probs really to date.

Helen, glad you had a good weekend. A break away from the norm really helps doesn’t it? Charabang is a word I haven’t heard for a while. My grandfather used to run a charabang from Aberdare to Cardiff in the “olden days”.

I think the worsening of my shoulder yesterday is down to cording. Grrrrrrrr again. 1 step forward, 2 steps back. Beam me up Scotty!

oops posted before I finished.

Sandra, I’m premenopausal and no mention of Zoladex. Just Tamoxifen A lot to think about though, regarding the chemo. I wasn’t given a choice just rads and hormone treatment. felt a bit cheated at first but after lots of explanations from onc and gp, am happy not to have had it. especially when I see how hard it is for the girls on here. I sometimes wonder how they stay so upbeat.

Great to see you back Nell and glad you had a good time. Doesn’t it feel wonderful just to forget everything for a few days. Ahh bliss!

Welcome back Helen, glad you had a good time and enjoyed being normal :wink:
I too have got to go and read all the posts as I’ve been hiding under a duvet all day, I must have sleeping sickness as I could go back now.
Really interesting to hear about your visit to the Onc Sandra, I’m wondering what the outcome of mine will be tomorrow, as you say it seems a lottery as to where you live so we’ll see.
Off to read all your news, I’d better take notes :slight_smile:
Di x

Good luck for tomorrow Di. I don’t even think it matters where you are - it seems to me if you put 6 doctors in a room and ask them something, you’d get 6 different answers. Despite what they want us to believe, medicine is not an exact science - each one of us is different for a start.

Yay! Yorkie’s back! Sounds like a whizz whammo of a weekend. Excellent. The saloon’s not been the same, although that could be 'cos the bartender’s been a bit distracted of late. Eh, Scotia, nudge is as good as a wink to a blind horse, Eh, Eh?

Good luck tomorrow Di. Storm Riders all on horseback right behind ya’

Ok, at last I ask, what is cording? GP said yesterday I have tennis elbow. Does that come with cords, or just strings? :slight_smile: