Hi
I have posted a couple of times but things are finally becoming clearer and looks like I am heading to a July start of TC x 4 cycles.
I am a 49 yr old mother to 3 teens 18, 17, 14 and work as an EA/office hr operations manager.
I found the dreaded lump back in Feb shortly after my mil suddenly passed away.
I had a lumpectomy on my grade 2 with DCIS tumour, ER+ PR+ HER2-back in April but one of my nodes came back + after the SLNB and my margins were “close”. I had a re-excision last week (this was after a PET scan post lumpectomy which can back clear).
My PREDICT score puts me in the intermediate “grey” area of risk and we are now waiting for the PROSIGNA results to confirm.
My oncologist was very frank and said I may still get a result that puts me on the fence and they would sway towards chemo if so.
So, this takes me to those who have had TC x 4.
What were your side effects and what helped? There seems to be a lot of info so would love to hear from first-hand experience.
I have decided I want a port not a PICC too after researching both (I have a choice).
Also did anyone manage to work from home? I can’t afford SSP and my co has already given me 2 weeks for the lumpectomy on full pay and a week for the re-excision.
I was thinking I could work:
1 ½ days per week
1 day take it as annual leave
1 ½ days sick pay (ideally enhanced, I am negotiating)
My role is doable from home and I can dictate hours (within reason) but am I being unrealistic?
I am meeting the chemo team soon too to start getting in my head what I think is inevitable.
Any tips, advice and general support welcome.
TIA