When I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2012 , I was in desperate need to speak to other men who had gone through the same thing, for advice, hear about their experiences and to be honest just to shoot the breeze ! when I first met another man who had had BC I was really emotional .
There is now a Men’s Virtual Meet Up (VMU) that takes place every month, on Zoom, for such things . As well as all the above it is a support network for those of us who have gone through or are going through this bloody disease. Its very relaxed and has been compared to blokes having a chat in the pub but without the booze (although that is of course optional .
Here is an article explaining how what when where why (to quote Manhattan Transfer)
New forum will bring men with breast cancer together (dmu.ac.uk)
For info etc please email doug.harper@themensvmu.org