Hi december24
Thanks for your post. It’s understandable that you’re asking for advice and reassurance with your symptoms of pain and fatigue following your diagnosis of triple negative breast cancer…
There’s a lot to take in when you’re newly diagnosed with breast cancer and many people feel overwhelmed and frightened. It may be that the pain you’re experiencing is due to the biopsy you had taken.
It looks as though you’ve had some good support from the forum already and as @Coddfish says, you’re likely to feel better when treatment is underway. At times like these, you may find it helpful to call our helpline, as we often find we can help people more by speaking to them on the phone. The helpline team have time to listen, talk things through and signpost you to more support and information if necessary. Your call will be confidential, and the number is free from UK landlines and all mobile networks.
Treatment is tailored to your individual situation, and what you are offered will depend on a number of factors including the grade, size and stage of your cancer. As @tinatin and @ivy-cat say, the wait for your chemotherapy to start is unlikely to make a difference to the stage and grade of your cancer.
Experiencing fatigue (extreme tiredness) after receiving a diagnosis of breast cancer is common. It doesn’t always go away with rest or sleep and may affect you physically and emotionally.
Factors that may contribute to fatigue, such as: the emotional impact of a breast cancer diagnosis and altered sleep patterns. Trying to stay physically active can help. Eating a healthy well balanced diet is also important. There are a few situations where fatigue can be due to other conditions such as anaemia, (too few red blood cells in the body) or thyroid problems so it’s important these are ruled out.
Talking to someone who has had a similar experience can often be helpful. Our Someone Like Me service can match you with a trained volunteer who’s had a similar experience to you. You can be in touch with your volunteer by phone or email and they can share their personal experiences to answer your questions, offer support or simply listen to how you are feeling.
You can ring the Someone Like Me team on 0800 138 6551 or email them at someone.likeme@breastcancernow.org, so they can then match you to your volunteer.
We also offer a range of free supportive services for anyone who has had a diagnosis of breast cancer which you may be interested in. They include face to face and online courses and events.
Do also discuss how you are feeling with your breast care nurse or GP. They may be able to refer you for some talking therapies to help you through this difficult time.
As I said, do call our helpline if you would like to talk this through or have any further questions. The helpline team have time to listen, talk things through and signpost you to additional support and information if necessary.The number is 0808 800 6000, (Relay UK -prefix 18001).
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Best wishes
Addie
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