Hi pinkisbetter
I had ILC tumour, 11mm. I chose a thorough double mastectomy for myself (mucinous cancer simultaneously in other breast and strong family history).
The 3 tested sentinel nodes were clear, BUT my surgeon spotted a more distant one during surgery that looked dodgy, so he harvested that for the path lab. Came back positive with extracapsular spread (next up from macrometastasis, as it suggests). I was given the option of zapping the area blind with radiotherapy but (I again) chose axillary clearance because I wanted visible evidence of how bad things were. As it turned out, of the (only) 9 nodes found/examined, none of these were affected (so, 1/13). That was the good news, but then I did go on to develop lymphoedema, just 6 weeks later.
(As this had already happened, I couldn’t guess if the 5 days worth of ‘belt and braces’ radiotherapy that followed for the breast tumour, would have caused it or not.)
Do I regret my decision to opt for the axillary surgery? No. To me, it was a no-brainer. I had to know.
So, as much as I felt so gutted and sorry for myself re unnecessarily (as it turned out) developing lymphoedema (more so, in fact, than the cancer - which I had kind of been expecting) … it was yet another thing to carry through life … at least I knew there wasn’t any further spread through the nodes. (Lobular is so unpredictable.)
The lymphoedema was in hand and lower arm mainly, tight and puffy in whole hand and lower fingers. I went through some sessions of manual lymph drainage massage, had heavy strapping for a week, tried an amazing variety of compression garments, stuck with just a couple of the most effective and finally bought myself a £1,000 LymphAssist “Hydroven 12” machine by Huntleigh Healthcare (pneumatic inflatable sleeve that delivers a 35 minute programme of sequential pressure along the arm to encourage lymph movement/drainage). With the combination of intermittant compression garment (I’m a slacker) and nightly pumping (religiously), the excess fluid has dissipated greatly. The very slight residual puffiness is barely visible. Occasionally it increases a bit, but can be encouraged away again. I know this can get worse over the years but I’m hoping not, if my body is learning how to deal with lymph along a different path. 16 months on from axillary clearance and I’m doing well on little effort.
The 5 sessions of radiotherapy, for me, was a breeze; hardly even tender. (If you go down that route, I strongly recommend looking at the RESPIRE website for demonstration and practice of ‘breath holding technique’ a couple of weeks beforehand to help minimise lung/heart exposure, especially if targeting left chest wall.)
My oncotype DX score let me off the hook regards chemo.
Of course, no 2 people have exactly the same experience of all of this. I just hope my story gives you more data to weigh up. Wishing you the very best of luck. x