Diagnosed last Monday I wrote a middle of the night post to which so many of you beautiful people responded. So much brilliant advice, valuable information, reassurance and understanding. I’ve read everyone, cried over the understanding, smiled over the warmth and relaxed over the “been there, done that and come out the other side”. Thank you all for caring and for going out of your way to help me. My surgery is booked for January 3rd (I wanted to spend Christmas without my grandchildren knowing) surgeon said that was fine. Gives me time to organise myself (I’m that sort of a person) and not be stressing over silly things like the windows need cleaning (I know, I know, not important at this time). But most important in all of this is I feel as if I’ve extended my family and I might have chosen different circumstances but I’m so glad to know you all and I love each and every one of you. Onwards and upwards. xxxx
Sending love right back to you Nannabee and I’m glad to hear you have a plan in place that is right for you. I agree with you that this group is amazing and I too am so grateful for the support of everyone here.
and you will both reach out and help others too each word posted on here by all forum members reaches far wider than any of us can ever know and a word on here can touch a life and hopefully help in some way knowing others understand 
Shi xx
Hi again @nannabee
So glad to hear that you have a plan in place and can move forward now.
Wishing you all the very best for your treatment and beyond and I hope that you have a wonderful Christmas with your family .
Love
Joanne x
Having a plan means tou have some control which during this horrid time is a big tick
Enjoy December festivities and New Year x