Hi gels, I hope you are all managing to make the most of the lovely weather in some way.
I just wanted to ask what you would do in this situation. My background is that in January 2007 I noticed a small pea-sized painless lump in my left breast and went straight to the doctor. I have been registered with the same surgery since 1998 but rarely need to see an actual GP it is normally just the nurse for my contraception and on rare occasions I needed to see a GP I have never been fussy about seeing a particular one I just figure they are all equally qualified so I will go to whichever one is available soonest.
The GP that I saw in 2007 was not one I had seen before he was fairly new to the practice. He immediately told me that my lump was a “breast mouse” after a quick fumble, and told me the technical name for one of these, which I think was fibrodanoma but I am probably spelling it wrong. He printed some stuff off the internet for me to take away and read, told me it was nothing to worry about and no point having it removed and I thought, hey he is a GP he knows what he is on about so I heaved a sigh of relief and got on with life. Towards the end of 2007 I was becoming increasingly conscious of the lump and it seemed to have grown in size and had become painful.
While I was on holiday in Goa in December I told my boyfriend that as soon as we were back home and had got Christmas and New Year out of the way I was gonna go back to the doctors and ask for the lump to be removed because it was annoying me and also I didn’t want to become complacent and assume that any other lumps I may develop in the future were nothing to be worried about, or indeed fail to notice any new lumps which may develop by assuming they were the one I already had.
So I made an appointment at my doctor’s surgery the first week in January and explained I had seen a particular GP a year ago for the same concern, however he was no longer with the practice so they made me an appointment for another new one and he was absolutely lovely, the minute I said I wanted the lump removed even if it were not dangerous he agreed and said if any patient came to him with any kind of worry he would get them referred no questions asked because he believes worry is what kills people. Before the week was out I was examined by the top consultant surgeon of the south east and a week after that he called me back with the bad news…
People have been telling me that I should complain about the GP that originally sent me away telling me not to worry, because if I had not gone back for a second opinion when I did, my prognosis could have been a lot worse. The tumour had grown to almost an inch in diameter and nearly all of it was cancer, grade III but thankfully it had not spread (I reckon if I had not been diagnosed when I was, it would have spread by now so thank goodness I went back) At first I said I wanted to focus my energy on getting my head round everything and getting through my treatment. My Critical Illness insurance has paid off so it is not like I want to sue anyone for damages I do not need the money but I am now wondering whether I could prevent some other woman getting “fobbed off” if I report him???
I realise that everyone makes mistakes or mis-judges certain situations but when you’re a doctor there is less room for “human error” Kylie Minogue has also been in the media again recently, saying that SHE was mis-diagnosed the first time she saw a doctor about the lump and we all know what happened when she went back for a second opinion…
Would you do anything in ny situation?
Sorry that was an essay but I think I am well enough known on here by now that people expect me to use 1000 words where 10 would do