Wig Advice Please??

Hi I am looking for any advice about getting a wig…

When I was diagnosed with cancer the first time, I couldnt imagine wearing a wig and stuck with hats and scarves. The main down-side was that the head-gear is such a give away.

This time around I am thinking (just thinking) about getting a wig. S far, I have been advised about Trendco, and tried one on today.But I cant imagine being able to have the confidence to wear one- it is just ‘too perfect’ and so not-me.

I am 42, with fairly mousy, non-descript, plain, short hair. I live in London.

Can anyone help? Or shall I just get my old scarves out again? (Sadly, I gave all my hats away in January as I thought it was finally time to move on ):slight_smile:

Thank you, Rattles, x

Hi Rattles,

When I was diagnosed I had my hair cut quite short in anticipation and went into work with it last week - got lots of comments about my new style.

Today I went in wearing my wig and several people asked if I’d had my highlights done - none of them realised that it was my wig.

It’s very comfy and nobody at the shops seemed to be staring!

They’re very good these days but I’d suggest going to somebody who knows what they’re doing - I was refered by my bcn - as it’s almost impossible to buy on line!

I’ve never been a hat or scarf person so it would be a dead give away for me to - I now people I know will know its a wig but strangers hopefully will treat me the same as always!

I’ve spent all my life fightly bad hair days so I think I’m going to enjoy the just walked out of the salon look … but I chose one that’s not too perfect!!!

Good luck

Jackie x

Hi
When i wore my wig i also had my hair cut short prior to it falling out. My tip however is if you decide to get one and get your hairdresser to cut it for you, it then looks more natural.

Good luck
L

Hi, have you had a look at the Trevor Sorbie site “My new Hair”, lots of tips & advice on the subject and a list of salons countrywide with Sorbie trained staff. x

I got a short NHS wig, and it was fantastic. When I went bck to work (8 months later) some people didn’t know I’d been off, so I explained, and many of them said “oh your hair’s grown back quickly” - and it was the old wig… Do not despair! I think short wigs generally look more realistic than long ones, personally… Good luck! Jane

I got a wig same length as my hair was (medium bob), but the wig had far more volume than my hair, and didn’t feel quite right as my head/face is small, I started to tie it back in a scrunchy and it looked great - very natural. Some wigs are too shiny to look totally natural, I got round this by sprinkling talcum powder on it and then shaking out the excess. Go to a reputable wig fitter where they’ll fit and adjust the wig to fit your head.

Hiya
Im due to start chemo tomorrow and today went to the royal marsden and chose a wig, I am delighted with it !! I had visions of horrid nylon looking bird nests and it couldnt be more different, Ive just shown my husband and he said it takes 10 years off me, not sure if thats a compliment but I will take it as one :slight_smile: My hairdresser needs to trim the fringe and style it a little but I will be quite ready to wear it when needs be, Good luck if your not happy with the nhs wigs from the hospital they will give you a list of local wig suppliers

Take care Janice x

I agree with Jane. Generally I think short wigs look more natural than longer styles. I had one from a local trichology clinic/hairdresser as recommended by the Breast Care Nurse and paid for by the NHS. Lots of people didn’t know it was a wig. At the time I was entitled to a free replacement after 6 months. Just thought I’d mention this in case you didn’t know.

I hope your Breast Care Team can recommend somewhere good.

Hi Rattles

In addition to the information and support here you may find the BCC ‘Breast cancer and hair loss’ publication helpful, you can access it via this link:

www2.breastcancercare.org.uk/publications/treatment-side-effects/breast-cancer-hair-loss-bcc54

Best wishes
Lucy

When I lost my hair due to chemo, I went to a wig shop in Brighton and tried a few styles, but all of them looked like hats with hair sprouting out of them. As a result, I went on the alopecia UK forum to ask people who are more clued up about wigs, what they thought the most natural looking wig was. Without fail the answer was lace wigs. Lace wigs are real hair with each strand threaded onto a mesh base which is transparent when worn.Because the base is transparent it looks like the hair is growing out of the scalp (but of course it relies on the wearer being bald, or nearly bald underneath). I paid about £300-£350 for mine, which was actually less than the wigs I tried in Brighton.
The only downside is that they are a bit of a nuisance to put on and take off, as you have to stick them with wig tape around the perimeter. You have to line up the edge of the wig with where your natural hairline would be, and when you take them off, you need to use a special spray to dissolve the adhesive. Having said that once they are on, most people leave them on for several weeks, washing just like normal hair. The other problem is finding a supplier who stocks lighter shades of hair, as lace wigs are mainly bought by black women (beyonce apparently wears lace wigs), but the Alopecia forum put me onto a supplier who stocks all shades. If you want the details please feel free to pm.

I second what Tina46 has said about My New Hair and Look Good Feel Better. I went to their salon at Long Melford, Suffolk and they are absolutely brilliant. Nothing was too much trouble for them.

lookinggoodfeelingbetter.co.uk/my-new-hair.html

So many people have commented on my wig and say how realistic it is, and that they would never know that it is not my own hair.

On the recommendation of my Chemo Nurse at the West Suffolk Hospital, I paid them a visit with a friend whilst I still had my own hair before I started my chemo at the beginning of June 2011. I was going to try the cold-cap treatment and try to retain my own hair, but the wig was going to be my ‘contigency plan’ and with their help I picked out the wig that I was secretly hoping I didn’t really need to come and collect, but it was there ‘just in case’

However, by the time I had had my 2nd chemo and cold cap session in early July I decided to call it a day, as it was obvious that my own hair was suffering – it was so dry on top and splitting badly. At least I was given the opportunity to try the cold-cap though, but unless your hair looks good in the meantime there is not a lot of fun retaining it if you always look as if you are having a bad hair day. You are only supposed to wash your hair no more than twice a week whilst undergoing the cold cap treatment, not to colour or use heat on it – in fact do nothing that might give your hair stress. Well, I’m afraid that my hair style was coloured with hi-lights and designed to be washed and blasted everyday so to look unwashed and flat is not the look I wanted. Every time I looked in the mirror it was seeing my mother looking back at me on a bad-hair day, and believe me, that was bad!

I picked up the phone and booked my appointment at My New Hair for the very next day to come in and have my wig styled and fitted. My husband and daughter came with me for support, and my sister arrived there before we did, and she was pleasantly surprised to be offered refreshments whilst she waited our arrival. With an audience watching her the hairdresser set to work on my wig and by the time she had finished, if you will pardon the pun it was a definite case of ‘hair today, gone tomorrow’ and the best thing I did. At least I was looking at myself in the mirror now, and not seeing my mother instead! My audience voiced their approval, once they had downed their tea, kit-kats and penguin biscuits.

What could have been a very traumatic experience for me was in actual fact a wonderful afternoon’s treat, and morale boosting too!

Even my chemo nurse looked at me quizzically before asking if I was wearing a wig, as did my GP and the attendees at the ‘Looking Good, Feeling Better’ pamper session I attended at the Big C Centre to mention but a few. If those who regularly come into contact with women such as me who are undergoing chemo can not tell I am wearing a wig then what better testimony to their good work than that.

I had to pay for my wig, but I think that it was money well spent compared to the amount I have saved in hairdressing costs and hair products in the interim.

If you can visit My New Hair in Long Melford, but they have lots of salons across the country.

Good luck

Mazzalou xx