Hi all,
I was diagnosed with TNBC back in May 2022. I have had 6 rounds of Chemo followed by a lumpectomy in October. I decided to take time off work during treatment which I think was the right decision at the time. December came and my statutory sick pay ran out. I considered applying for ESA allowance until I finished my Radiotherapy but then made the decision to return to work. I work at the local supermarket and am currently doing my minimum contracted hours, so three 4hr shifts a week. I am due to start my Radiotherapy in the next few weeks and as I was advised to go for the longer option by my surgeon due to having a flap put in. This means I will have three weeks where they treat the entire breast and one booster week. I have some holidays accrued and my boss said I can use them during my treatment so I will at least get holiday pay. I just can’t help thinking that perhaps I was wrong to go back to work before the Radiotherapy as I worry that the fatigue will just be too much. What did you all do? Did any of you work through it and if so how did you cope? My husband who is the main breadwinner is really struggling with his job at present. He suffered a burnout and was signed off for 4 weeks. He started back this week and on the advice of his Dr is only doing two days a week for 4 weeks to ease himself back into things. The thing is he doesn’t think that things will change and he feels that he will be back to square one feeling terrible in 4 weeks time. I feel awful as I want to concentrate on my treatment and getting better but I worry about him. We have two children also a 12yr old boy and 8yr old girl so it’s not easy on them as they pick up on it all. Apologies for the rant but I needed to get it off my chest.