Hiya,
I need some advice please.
I’ve had two different types of breast cancer, both in the same breast. With the first one I had a lumpectomy, with several lymph nodes removed, and 30 episodes of radiotherapy.
With the second I had a mastectomy and reconstruction. Doctors decided as I’d had lymph nodes removed with my first cancer there was no chancce of the cancer having spread so I didn’t need chemotherapy. Wrong decision!!
From 2007 through to 2011 I had various chemotherapies trying to deal with secondaries in my lungs, liver and spine. Nothing seemed to work. In June 2011 I had an MRI scan which showed that I now had a 2cm tumour in my brain. Having had full-brain radiotherapy as part of trials earlier in my journey I wasn’t able to have it when I needed it most. Instead, I had 10 sessions of targetted radiotherapy on the tumour. It must have worked to an extent as I was no longer taking dizzy turns.
Howeve, despite having had just one session of Taxol, my oncologist said that my body wouldn’t cope with anymore chemotherapy.
I was sent to my local hospice where I recovered from the effects of the radiotherapy.
In August 2011, I had a meeting with my oncologist where I was told that there was no more he could do for me. When pushed for a time line he told me that the everage life expectation for people with my secondaries was 4 -6 months.
I’m a stubborn kind of girl and I not only passed the 6 month mark but hubby & I celebrated with a bottle of champagne.
I have just passsed the 8 month mark and now find myself wondering if things are moving on. I’m quite tired most days and can’t walk as much as I used to.
I attend the day unit of our local hospice but I know if I asked there I would only be told “that everyone is different”
Most of the posts I’ve read so far seem to be from people who have lost a loved one but is there anyone who can tell me how I will know when the end is near?
Thanks
Tiny