I'm so sorry to read that after 4 consults with different docs, you still don't have a solid diagnosis to go on. I get a sense you have been seeing different GP's?
I don't know where you are located but the Peggy Wood Breast Care Centre at Maidstone Hospital, Kent, is excellent and care for women with all forms of breast cancer and benign breast problems. The philosophy of care within the unit is to combine a cohesive professional team approach to treatment with a personalised service aimed at involving and supporting patients in decision-making. I can contest to how well I was treated -- professional, very competent individual care and the one-stop clinics are led by specialist breast clinicians, who aim to diagnose and treat patients within two weeks of referral. I don't live within the trust catchment and went seeking a second opinion and glad I did.
I had no lumps, pain and no idea that I had two small tumors and two large areas of DCIS (click my name and read my profile if you wish). I do have experience of trying to find the proper diagnosis and treatment and not being messed about. We have to continue to be an advocate for our care and believe me, that is what I had to do, because who else would if I didn't?
All my best to you Hellsbells, LB, x (BTW, with a nom plume of Hellsbells, you perhaps have the ability to push till you get what you need more than most, if you get my drift

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