Worried & anxious

[ladybowler]

Hb

I remember when I got my oncology appointment letter before I had even had my results.  I rang my bcn in  a blind panic, was convinced that it was something very sinister, she said that they had been ultra efficient in getting the apt out and it was for my rads, she told me over the phone what my results were so that I was reassured.

Sending you a pair of tough pants for tomorrow.  Let us know how you get on, we are all by your side.  Let us know how you get on if you can

Helena xxxx

[Hb1988]

Thanks for your reply. I've spoken to the breast care nurse. My appt is tomorrow. Basically they have a treatment plan for me but I was on my own driving when I called & I didn't want to know more. So scary xxxx

[ladybowler]

Hb

If I was you I would ring your bcn tomorrow to find out what is going on, that is a totally unacceptable way to receive an appointment that you do not know anything at all about, especially as you have not even had your results, I think someone has completely jumped the gun here.

Sending you a hug my dear xxx

[Hb1988]

Hi all. I am absolutely devastated. I came out of work today with a text messages for genetics testing. I haven't even had a formal diagnosis yet. I literally have no words - so unethically wrong. I'm besides myself x

[ladybowler]

Hb

Oh I can totally understand that.

Sending you a pair of our tough pants with very deep pockets so that we can all be there for you next week

Helena xxx

[Hb1988]

Thanks Helena.

I already have an appt next Tuesday but I was just being inpatient I think. Xx

[ladybowler]

Hb

Well if your results are back they hopefully should have been discussed in the MDT today so you should get an appointment fairly soon.  I know it is so hard but you will get there.

Sending you hugs

Helena xxx

[Hb1988]

I tried going to clinic today as I work in the hospital but they were in mdt so they couldn't tell me anything. This is so hard xx

[ladybowler]

pipchick

Sending hugs to you as well for Monday

Helena xxx

[ladybowler]

Hb

Well there are plenty of us on here who have been where you are now and loads of ladies for whom their results have turned out not to be cancer 🙂 🙂

Thats the best thing to do to keep yourself occupied, let us know how you get on xxxx

[Hb1988]

Hi there. Thinking of you pipchick whilst you wait for your appt. Hope it goes well xxx

[Hb1988]

Hi Helena,

Thank you for your kind message. It's so nice to hear from people who have been through/going through the same thing. The clinic was a scary time but this wait for results is unbearable.

Trying to stay positive & keep busy. But it's hard not to think about the worst 😞 xxx

[pipchick]

Hugs hunni I am waiting for my clinic appt on Monday and going out of my mind x

[ladybowler]

Hb

Hello and welcome to the forum

This is the worst time when you are waiting for results. There are a lot of benign conditions that it can be and taking a biopsy does not mean that it is cancerous but it is good that they are being thorough in checking it.  Try as much as possible to distract yourself and please do not google generally on the internet as there is a lot of out of date and misinformation on there.

We are all here for you so come on here whenever you need and we will get you through the next week.

Sending you a hug

Helena xxx

[Hb1988]

Feeling so nervous it's unbearable!

I'm 29 and 2 weeks ago I found a lump in my left breast. I've never been great at checking but this appeared quote quickly. I've seen the gp & been to breast clinic. I'm now waiting for my biopsy results and I have an appt on Tuesday. Feels like a life time. The main thing that concerned me is that they biopsy from the lump & the lymph nodes. I didn't know if this was protocol or what.
The consultant said it's more Then likely a benign lump, a phylodes Tumor but they can't rule anything sinister out at the moment.the lump basically showed calcification around it.

So worried ; the wait in unbearable.