is this real?

[S2usy]

I feel so sad for you. How are you doing...your posts have greatly touched me and make me realise how there is always somebody suffering more ..... Please let us nw how you are. Xxxxx

[Guest user]

As others have said....Be strong, be positive. Sending big power hugs to you. You are in my thoughts. Dont give up xxx

[Janey160359]

I am so sorry that you are having to endure such turmoil. Just want you to know you are in my thoughts and I will say a prayer for you. Please try to stay positive and to hang on to hope....The treatments out there are so advanced these days and the clinical trials are helping people fight this blasted disease. Hopefully there will be a treatment that can help you. Do not loose faith xx
Janey x

[Guest user]

Don't give in
Or give up the fight
Never say 'I can't do this'
Always believe that you can
Trust that miracles can, and do happen
And you are stronger than you think.

From me to you with a ((((HUG))))
Lesley x

[Tracy1967]

I'm another member who is thinking of you and sending positive thoughts. Hugs and best wishes, Tracy XXX

[poemsgalore]

We are all thinking about you. Sending prayers, hugs and best wishes.

[Guest user]

thank you so much to you all i m so scared xxx

[poemsgalore]

Dear Donata,

I've just returned after a few days break from this website and found your post. I am so very sorry to hear your diagnosis. There is nothing I can add to what everyone has said. I am going to put a prayer on the prayer thread for you, and I feel awful that I wasn't around to answer you post immediatley. 

Just to add I will be thinking of you, please keep in touch for as long as you feel up to it, and let us know how you are getting on.

poemsgalore. xxx

[Guest user]

Hi Donata,

I have nothing of value to add to the mix, but I want to echo what everyone else here has already said. I am so desperately sorry you're going through this. You really are in my mind & thoughts. Keep talking to us sweetheart

Suzanne x

[Lols]

Hi donata,
I have no idea what I can say that will help you, I read your post yesterday I'm currently on chemo for bc and your situation kept popping into my mind. What a cruel disease I hope you,have some good support around you , family, friends and professionals . It's all,so,daunting I know but there is help,out there . I feel for you and wishing you all the best, take care Hun xx

[Guest user]

Hello Donata

I can't comprehend the turmoil that you must be going through right now. I really hope that you have people around you who can help and support you through this difficult time.
And like Lucy says, the BCC helpliners ars just a phone call away.
Wishing you well hun
((((hug))))
Lesley x

[Jonamo]

Thinking of you. Keep strong and fight it with everything you have. I hope that you have good friends and family to help you through this. We are of course all here.
A x

[mary32]

Hi Donata

I would like to echo Amanda's post. I hope you find the strength to get through this. We are thinking of you.

Mary

[Boxofrogs]

Dear Donata, I am compelled to write to you and try to offer some support. I don't usually go on the recently diagnosed page. However today I did, and noticed the lack of replies to your heart wrenching post. I don't know what I could possibly say that would help and I'm pretty sure that's the reason others are slow to reply. I am imagining you are feeling very lonely and isolated at the moment. I am sure everyone who has read your post has been thinking about you today. I know I have. I wish I could give you some real advice about how best to get support. I imagine finding someone who is in a similar situation may help. I hope you have called the help line as suggested by Lucy BCC because I'm sure they will be able to direct you. Anyway, I just wanted to say I am thinking of you. Amanda x

[Rowan44]

Oh Donata I am so sorry to hear that , I hope they can slow things down and get you treated and well again

its natural to panic and feel that events are getting away  and perfectly understandable given your situation !

Try to keep focussed on getting back to health , I truly believe that mind set can help get you better  and at least improve your odds ,  try and imagine being back to normal , staying positive is half the battle .

Keep on fighting you have the doctors fighting for you too

R xxx

[Lucy_BCC]

Dear Donata
I am very sorry to read your post and wanted to say that you may find it helpful to talk all this over with one of our helpliners who are here to support you, lines are open 9-5 weekdays and 10-2 Saturdays on 0808 800 6000
This link will take you to further reading about secondary breast cancer when you are ready to read it and also further support from BCC:

https://www.breastcancercare.org.uk/secondaries

Take care
Lucy BCC

[Guest user]

I ve just spent a week in hospital in terrible pain and i have finally been told the conclusions from the scan and various biopsies.the breast cancer has spread to the neck,chest,liver,kidney and stomach.they still want to do an mri scan as i ve had terrible pain in my spine and can no longer walk.All of this has happened in two months my head is reeling from the speed of it all.they ve told me i ve got a particularly aggressive form of cancer,is it just me?I reality does not feel real help