I think you did the right thing, there is no point trying to support someone else who doesn’t understand. My partner has schizophrenia and although webhave stayed together and he was a saint through chemo, he now has no understanding at all. As for the not feeling in control, I think we can all relate there. It is out of our control, there will be choices to be made regarding treatment but I didn’t feel I had much choice. Good luck with the rest of your journey, we are all here for you. 