Nothing seems to arouse strong feelings like this forum!
Like Elinda, I’m all for healthy eating; there’s no doubt junk food is bad for everyone. But there’s plenty of people around who eat c**p all their lives and don’t get cancer.
Between my first primary and my second I did a load of ‘good’ things - stopped smoking, drastically reduced my alcohol intake, increased my exercise, improved my diet, reduced my commitments. I was ‘rewarded’ for all this endeavour with a Grade 3 tumour (the first was a grade 1). I don’t think any of it was wasted and I’m still glad I did it, but I’m relieved that I never saw it as any kind of ‘talisman’ for continued good health, as I would have been most seriously disappointed.
And there’s plenty who eat an exemplary diet and become seriously ill with this disease.
The way I look at is that I feel better when I eat well and that it helps to keep me in better shape to deal with everything this disease keeps throwing at me. But a blameless diet won’t overcome genetics or environmental factors (pollution, for example). Or just plain bad luck.
A positive mindset? Mmmmm. I tend to think that being positive, or perhaps I should say appearing to be positive, is of most benefit to other people. Makes them feel less uncomfortable around us and enables their own fears to recede a bit, probably.
People tell me I’m positive, but I’m not. But I’ve always just tried not to worry too much about the future and do my best to get the most of the here-and-now. And I’ve been told I’ve got liver secondaries (and that’s after even more efforts with diet, alcohol and exercise!). I’m realistic about what the future holds for me, but I don’t inflict too much of that knowledge on anyone else - that’s why they say I’m ‘positive’.
Rachy, ace point about the way positive thinking is reserved only for cancer patients. No-one has suggested it to my Type 1 diabetic brother, who will probably lose at least 10 years of his lifespan and has a good chance of going blind and having limbs amputated before that. It’s what JaneRA calls, I think, the ‘mystification’ of cancer.
On the other hand (I do love playing devil’s advocate), Buckwheat and Gardenbeetle if what you do makes you (and only you, not your rellies, colleagues, friends) feel better and more able to cope with the beamer that is breast cancer, then that can only be a good thing for you personally.
I really do think that diet is only one part of a complicated puzzle, tho’.
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