I have been using this site for many years but of late I am getting quite distressed about a small minority of posters.
There have always been forceful characters on the site.This has resulted in lively debate which has sometimes needed reigning in by moderators.Fair enough. I am all in agreement with the guidelines if applied equally and fairly.
I am all for debate but not indoctrination. Some people like to weigh up both sides and not be ridiculed for taking their own path.
Once again, a thoughtful, informative poster has had to take the decsision to leave the site. She is not the first to do so as a result of behaviour that is aggressive, bullying and patronising.
I myself have been at their mercy of this few and believe me it feels very personal.
If this minority get reported little happens but others get their posts deleted. I understand that moderators cannot read every post of every thread but this pattern surely cannot continue.I have the greatest respect for the moderators but this feels all wrong.
I have a secondary diagnosis and do not know what I would do without this site. Just lately I am starting to think I may have to find out…
Julie