Hi Maria
No problem to answer your questions
how did u find your stay.
I was on 2 different wards 49 and 46. 49 is high dependency and you will be there for anything from 2 days to 5 depending on which type of recon you are having and how you are. I had the LD recon and didn’t respond to badly to the anesthetic so i was only in 49 for one night you are there longer if you have a DIEP. It’s 1 to 1 nursing in 49 and they check your flap very regularly to make sure it is ok. This can be quite intrusive but the staff are really nice. I was in a 4 bedded bay and all the other women were also having recons. Ward 46 is a general plastics ward so it can be a mixed bag who you are in with, again its 4 bedded bays. The food is not great so make sure you get brought food parcels.
what was the bc nurses like
The staff on the wards aren’t bc nurses but there are two bc nurses Claire and Dianne who are both great, they tend to pop into the word regularly and are a great source of info. The rest of the staff were in the main great but you do get your usual mixed bag.
how long were u in for
I was in for nine days, it really depends on how your drains are going. Each of the plastic surgeons seems to have a different rule about when the drains come out. For some it was when it went below 50mls others the drains would come out 7 days post surgery irrespective of the amount. There is different schools of thought.
did u need to come home with drains in(i am petrified of this happening as i have a boy who is autistic and he can be very rough)
They don’t let you home from the royal with your drains in.
when did u let yr kids see u after op
They aren’t supposed to let kids under 10 into high dependency, i didn’t have to worry about this as i was only there one night. I got my op on a Wednesday and my kids came to see me on the Friday but i would have been ok on the Thursday. Another lady i got to know was in high dependency for 5 days and they did let her kids in her youngest was 8.
are u pleased with results
Yes i am. Have to be honest wasn’t happy at first because of the way they had closed the wound but its really smoothing out now. Its a nice shape although slightly smaller than my other breast. I knew this would be the case and i will have an uplift and reduction on the other side to match me up.
is yr arm movement restricted
It’s getting back to normal although i am not there yet. I have been doing my exercises and have seen the physio a couple of times since discharge due to some cording. I did manage to get into the RADs planning position 3 weeks post surgery.
if u drive how long did u need to wait till u could drive again
I drove for the first time today 5 weeks post surgery, they say you can drive after 4 but i didn’t feel ready
The woman in the bed next to me had her DIEP flap done by Mr Mallon and she is very happy with it.
I was like you had chemo first then mastectomy and recon, my gap from chemo to surgery was 7 weeks. I have my first RADs tomorrow got 5 weeks worth.
Hope this answers your questions, anything else please just ask.
Let me know how it goes.
Lesley
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