Hi Girls,
What a busy week we’ve all had. I came back from wales, tired yet happy.Saw family and friends and went to a ‘civil ceremony’.I love an opportunity for a glass of champagne!
Similarly post SNB Ive needed a seroma drained on monday , it was painless, and need to have it done again on thursday, too much excersize- oh well its all good practice for the big op.
I had some good news, all clear in the nodes so no further surgery needed there. Someone somewhere is giving me a small break. I saw a lady who i met on SNB day, she lives very near to me so we swopped phone numbers, I met her OH , and hers and mine both work in the same health field! small world.
I had a massive wail today, it was after the admissions chap rang to book me in , it made it all so real - and terrifying. Mast and recon on the 30th. Counting down the days now. Im working still, work very supportive and have reduced my work load and said leave any time you like after 2pm, which is kind. Im worried about sick leave, im entitled to 13 weeks full pay, then what? I ll be off for all December then will have a treatment plan , im not having rads as i cant have any more.
It was discussed at my result meeting the risk of developing bc in my healthy boob, ive got a 40% risk of getting it in the next 10 yrs which is a bit high for my liking, bilateral mast was discussed, but eventually decided to go for the ‘sit and wait’ policy i can delay my op and have a rethink and councelling if i want, this probably also triggered my huge wail, OH home tonight hes been in alicante since last thurs-hooray x
Dyzee- you are being incredibly brave and courageous, and planning christmas at home, get lots of help if you do, and enjoy every minute. .
,If youve got any free time i could do with a hand! only jesting…hope your healing is a trouble free time, and the ooze stops soon, it will, have lots of vit c for healthy skin.
Dilys- apologies for spelling your name wrongly all this time, it ll be good to get back on ‘expansion’ again, hope you dont wait too long,I ve just read ‘brick lane’ how was the movie? im reading bill bryson now- the thunderbolt kid, very funny, chuckling is very much on my daily menu when possible.
Maddy-sorry to hear about your ‘pop’, is everything ok? what recon did you have? has it settled down now, all things internal moving around must be weird, i ve never even been pregnant so cant compare to anything.
I wish you all lots and lots of encouraging loving thoughts, and congratulate you all for being so brave and caring to everyone that you talk to here, i for one dont know what i would do with out the forum and most of all you girls. Have to go and stir the dhal, night night. speak later, j xxxxxx