I remember going back to work and being grateful I was given less to do for a while and I could forget about breast cancer for a whole day. I did not talk about it and nobody else did either. In some ways I was more relaxed as I had alwys put work first and now it seemed a lot less important. it was a great surprise when at a staff event I was presented with a bottle of champagne! I don’t remember drinking it, but I do remember the immense surprise I had when I won it!
This was in 2004 when I got breast cancer the first time aged 47
Sending you so much love. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Being a single mum is isolating enough as it is. Have you looked for support groups in your area? I am only at the very start of my journey. But I will be looking into these. As lucky as I am to have family and friends support me, they have no idea how you feel. And anyone with a diagnosis has their own journey and ways to deal with it. There is no right or wrong. Xx
Just an update - I did try to reach out to the one person who has been ok with me before this and her reply was just get on with it and working from home I made a rod for my back so just get on with it. As I said no support what so ever. I do try to get on with things and not mention to anyone what I am going through. I am glad I found this forum as I feel so supported and don’t feel guilty for expressing how I feel even though I sound like I am self pitying as some people are going through a lot worse than me.
I hope you can find a support group outside of work. I searched on Facebook for a local breast cancer charity. I’m sure most areas have one. And keep using this forum. You have people here who know exactly what you are going through
Dear @ibizan55 my heart goes out to you, I think most people have been in this position, at some time throughout their journey, some just don’t know or how deal with someone with Cancer ever family and especially friends.
I think you’re entitled to feel a little sad for yourself, with so much going on. Take one day at a time, enjoy what ever makes you feel better. Anxiety takes such a toll on us so please be kind to yourself.
We are all here for you with love and support, keep posting to let us know how you’re getting on.
