From bad to worse

Diagnosed with breast cancer Recently diagnosed with breast cancer
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Thank you. That’s very kind. I have had a bone scan and CT scan and seeing the surgeon again on Thursday afternoon. Won’t lie - scared stiff.

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Last week I was exactly where you are now, terrified for 3 weeks convinced myself I had lung cancer. Today I feel exhausted after an all clear in lungs, liver and bones.
I had hoped to avoid chemo though but seems this is the path ahead.

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Thanks for your thoughts. I’m glad everything was ok with you - and best of luck going forward. It’s just tough.

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Hi @lola3

I’m glad to hear you had some good news regarding your lungs, liver and bones today.

I am so sorry to hear what you’re going through. The forum is always here for you and our nurses are a call away if you have any questions or want to chat. You can reach them on 0808 800 6000.

Thinking of you,
Lucy

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The forum is here for you @flojo and so are our specialist nurses, for questions or just to chat. You can contact them on the Ask our Nurses your questions board on the forum or over the phone 0808 800 6000.

I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. Macmillan offer a free counselling service that you may find useful. You can find out more about this on their website: Free counselling for people with cancer | Macmillan Cancer Support

We’re thinking of you,
Lucy

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Thinking of your tomorrow xx

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Thank you. That’s so kind of you. xx

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Yes, all the best for tomorrow @flojo. Please let us know how you get on when you can. Sending strength and best wishes x

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Thank you. Your support means a lot. I will carry it with me. xx

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Back from the meeting with the surgeon. Bone scan and CT scan were both clear. I burst into tears and he was lovely. He offered to do a lumpectomy but I’m having a mastectomy to get rid of it all and node clearance. Currently September unless he has any cancellations. Then follow-up treatment depending on final outcome of surgery, but likely to be chemo, radiotherapy and oestrogen blockers. And breathe…

I would say thank you for the tip re the GP. He put up some Valium for me yesterday and that definitely took the edge of my panic at the appointment. So would recommend that for anyone else who is as much of a stress head as me. Off for a cup of tea now and calm down. xx

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I’m glad that your scans were clear at least and now you have a plan in place . You deserve a big piece of cake with your tea xx

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That’s actually really made my day. I am so pleased your CT and bone scan were clear.

Now try to relax and know you’re in good hands. I have had a double mastectomy and assure you it’s not as daunting as you may think.

Sending lots of love
Carrott

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Thank you. I feel as though I’ve been holding my breath for the last five weeks since I got a mammogram recall. xx

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Oh I’m so pleased! Thank you for letting us know. I’m really glad you’re feeling relieved and that you now know what you’re dealing with. Obviously if you have any questions about any of your planned treatment, pop them on here. You can guarantee that various people have been through, or are going through, the same things.
I’m really glad that today has brought positive news x

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Thank you - appreciate your kind thoughts. xx

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@flojo I’m so happy for you! I’m in the same situation and find out next Wednesday about my CT. Its so scary xx

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Hi please try and not get too low. I have had a mastectomy, on letrozole, having radiotherapy at the moment and then going on bisophonates followed by another tablet I can’t remember the name of. I am 79 and had a right mastectomy 20 years ago with full lymph node removal. No further treatment needed for that. It’s a terrifying time and so feel for you. I have just nursed my two little dogs through ill health and have lost both now. Our pets mean so much to us and help us get through life. If you need any more information from me please don’t hesitate to ask.xx

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Thank you. That’s very kind and sorry to hear you are having to deal with a second visit. I am so sorry also to hear about your dogs. I lost my lovely fox terrier to cancer last year at just 8.5 and it knocked me for six - as you say, then mean so much to us. Take good care and thanks again. xx

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I will be thinking of you. It’s scary beyond belief. Take care and fingers and toes crossed it is ok. xx

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Tears to help your anxiety and worries but also you now know

Bless you

Now you have a plan so go and have a large one with lots of ice, sit in the sunshine and just take a moment

One day at a time…
Hugs :people_hugging: x

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