That is not good as you say it takes a lot of courage to ask for help. My local doctors have put me on their cancer counselling list and I have had one call from them and another one due for tomorrow - She is not the actual counsellor but it is in case I need any help or want counselling in the future - not sure if all surgeries do this or I am lucky bit maybe worth a try at yours? x
Is it PINK for breast cancer?!!!
It wasn’t pink for breast cancer when I bought it but the thought did cross my mind before it made its hasty exit!
I’m having counselling and I feel sorry for the poor woman. She does get some crazy off me some weeks. She’s a very calm person thankfully. I think cancer counselling is really important as I think you need to process this life-changing scariness. Chase it, I say.
@naughty_boob I’m unsure what to do with my right armpit. It currently has an angry-looking, ugly scar from the sentinel node biopsy followed by axillary node clearance by Dr Doom Angel. The hair is growing at an alarming pace but I cannot get my arm high enough to shave it and of course I am not supposed to use a razor blade anymore due to having no lymph nodes. The cording would make that impossible anyway. May see how long I can grow it and get it made into a wig at a later date.
xx
My GP have well-being help but are not qualified counselling. I’ve now asked Penny Brohn charity for 1:1 counselling.
This work one said I’d rebooked for next Monday and now I’ve just received a text to say they will offer two more dates. This is just to see what I want🤨 May just tell to to do one!
Remember to share your wig from armpit hair. I think we’d all like to see that
Aside from that, I think it’s another chat with a medical professional advise.
Hi lovely keep up with dentist as sometimes bone treatment can cause issues I mean why wouldn’t it with all the other bloody problems, but we carry on with it as warriors, I’m on go slow with house work in fact I’m Kidding myself I’m on strike I put my coat on grab the dog whose about as knackered as me an go off anywhere to keep me sane , I’ve had a few wobbles recently so I’m being kind to me for a change
Take care lovely and keep strong xxx
Thanks @Nikks
Having a dog is a brilliant distraction from all the stuff we have to go through. Mine definitely senses when I’m having a good or bad day. I’m so up and down these days, every time I out the TV on there is an advert for a cancer charity or someone talking about it. I watched a couple of shows not knowing anybody had cancer in them and found it uncomfortable. I wish there was a warning like smoking etc.
Take care
Hi Naughtyboob
yes I totally agree it’s everywhere you turn , my friend and I recently did a radio interview about cancer and mental health , it’s a difficult journey
from diagnosis to treatment but there’s a massive void after where we are told to go an live your life but it’s not as simple as that , we know how hard it is finding ourselves after all the drastic life changes , we have to find the strength to continue, keep strong hun an enjoy your doggy it’s always my escape xxx