Thought it would just bleep me !!! Hope you feel better today M .Woke my usual anxious self - apparently it’s the corsodil which is high first thing in the morning- hopefully will improve during the day .Still feel like I have the flu bug hovering in background -wish it would make up its mind .
Just reading messages I generally think of myself as doing ok awaiting mammogram results from Jan 11 th so anxiety overboard . When other day work friend thought I should go on anti depressants I have to say I don’t feel depressed just scared of the uncertainty of breast cancer diagnosed April 14 sorry just needed to offload any advice greatly appreciated
Thanks Ann this is my 4th and silly as it is more nervous my friend who had mammogram same day had recall which thank god was all clear . I do sometimes think life is to good to be true we have had lovely holidays and looking forward to going to New York. As soon as I get results I will be ok I know it’s just the limbo I wish they could tell you at the time of appointment . Hope we both get our good news next week ?
Ahhh Rockstarchic, I assumed you were one year on, as you say, your friend’s recall hasn’t helped.
I’m with you on the holidays, we’re off shortly & are also going to NY later this year. Have a fab trip.
Anyway, ?it will be fine!
Thanks for your reassuring words, Delly
ann x
I was diagnosed April 2014 but never joined just used to read threads but this for some reason feeling very vulnerable I lost one of my be friends last year and I have had few friends diagnosed with secondaries so head but of a whirl . I read your posts all the time delly and you lift my spirits on the whole the forum does . I haven’t been on for a while but thank you for taking time to answer it helps a great deal .
We spent Christmas in Florida I’m always nagging hubby to book holidays and enjoy girly nights out with friends having fun is high on my agenda so I don’t know why I’ve been feeling like this I’m sure it will pass thank you for your reply and fingers crossed mammograms good xx
Hi Rockstarchick ,good luck with your mammogram .I think you are bound to have wobbly times - most of the time you just get on with your life and cancer is firmly in the background then certain things come along health issues etc and remind you what you have been through .Feel free to post here when you feel the need - anxiety is a horrible thing.x
Thank you Jill I’m sure once I get mammogram results as long as good news I will be ok it’s the waiting I don’t like
Wouldn’t it be great if they let you know on the day !!! Life goes on pause for a little while doesn’t it ?
That would be good I have good relationshi with breast nurses as a group of ladies do fundraising to increase the breast unit . So I can phone at any time they have rung radiographer but big backlog so waiting is the key I am impatient . Before they would do results same which is less stressful .
Fingers crossed they put you out of your misery soon .
Golly. This thread is coming ‘threadbare’ lol.
hope everyone is just enjoying themselves too much to post?
Awwww, Rockstarchic - I’m chuffingly flattered by your comment. You know it means I’m gonna have to come to N.Y. with you gals now, don’t you. Couple of pairs of thongs (don’t do knickers any more, must be my age!) and socks, and that’s me packed. Whilst your off gallavanting elsewhere, the only reason I ever want to go to N.Y. is to go to the Met. gallery/museum, the Guggenheim and see the Chrysler building, unless you want to see 'em too, that is. That okay?? Joking aside. Oh yeh, Golly RSC, losing your friend - that’s one horrible upsetting kick in the teeth from this ba**ard disease. I’m sooo bloomin sorry. I’d rather forfeit myself than any of my friends be lost. I’m not surprised you’re having a wobble, sweetie. For flips sake, you’re gonna have to keep us posted
Hi Jill and Moijan - It isn’t that you’re life just goes on pause, is it. It’s that your imagination goes into overdrive, thinking all sorts of things, until you get that call or little note through the door. It’s a bummer.
Am worried about BelleBelle. Shall we bombard her p.m. inbox with loving messages, until she submits to coming out and speaking?!!!
Love to everyone
Dellypoos xxxxxxxxxx
Hi all - not been posting a lot as been physically quite unwell last couple of weeks - GP referred me for blood tests and then possibly physio assessment as issues with my back and struggling to walk - quite scary symptoms .Alongside that having to deal with work issues as it looks like I will not be well enough to return in a timescale that is acceptable to my employers so will be out on my ear Neither of these things is helping with my anxiety at all .I have spoken to Belle via PM and she is not having an easy time and I guess she will post again when she feels up to it ?
Hellllllooooooo Ladies,
Many thanks for all your care and concern and for missing me…
Sorry that I have been missing as I have not been feeling too well and it has been just duvet days for me…
Am still in woozy land …
Jill…really hope that everything will turn out well for you and that things will get better each day ???
Delly…hi, hello, yo, ??? How are you??
Moijan…Are you getting your sleep? ???
Helena…huggie wuggies to you ???
Sue…wishing you well ???
For the rest of the Ladies…Have a wonderful Wednesday.
Take care.
Hugs, Belle xxxx
Hi M, yes I have sought advice from Union and I am going to refer to the Equalities act - but ultimately it’s up to them whether they agree to give me more time to get well - I will have been off for 12 months end of March , but not just with one issue ,a number of physical complications followed by anxiety issues and now back issues too !!! Bring on the lottery win !!
??? Thanks Sue for the cheers!,
??? Lovely to see you too Helena
??? Dellywelly, woohoo!!
??? Jill, wishing you better days.
??? Gentle hugs, Moijan
Let’s do a group hug
Xxxxxxx
Cute !!
Like the group hug picture Belle -Delly the cat looks like she is getting a bit squashed !!! bad week with work issues and bad legs /back but hopefully a better one next week? Hope you are feeling better Belle .Hope you are doing ok with latest treatment M. Hope everyone else is doing ok and have a nice relaxing weekend ahead .I am going to see my Dad in Liverpool for the day - hopefully the anxiety won’t be too bad and I will manage to enjoy my visit ???
Hello girls.xxx Delly, am keeping my head above water…tho only 3 hours sleep last nightxx
Hope everyone is enjoying the beautiful rain…? Love the pics…yes group Hugh
keep meaning to mention ‘Heathers hair’ on here…they are a charity who make headbands with real hair on, so you can wear them under a cap or scarf and you have a fringe,* or even an all round short bob.*
it is free, but as it’s a charity, they like small donation.xx I have two of those myself.*
i realise most of you have lovely full heads of flowing locks, but just in case xx I know some treatments can scare your hair!
Moijanxx
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