OOOOhhhhhhh I have been exercising too…
Anyone care to join!? LOL
Good one Belle xx
Although it opens the debate…should you keep chocolate in the fridge or the cupboard??
Sue…I have chocolates in the cupboard, fridge and mmmmm…side table in my bedroom…how bad is that??? ???
Hey girlies
Hiya Ruby Ruby Ruby ( Lovely Rubes to li’l ole me) Can ‘I’ join in on the self invite to “Belle’s Bistro”. Doesn’t the food just look fantastically tasty. I’m slobbering at the meatballs piccie! Need some of that - yes please missus. Mind you, I’m also thinking choclate covered mices!!! Lots of extra protein!!!
Love to everyone
DoolallyDelly xxxxxxx
Hello Girlies
Jilly - Are you under the duvet too, lovey? Shall I bring Sloe Gin, or Port? Meatballs are a must. I’m hoping your lack of presence is for GOOD reasons and not bad?? Are you okay???
Loads of love to you and everyone else.
Dellywelly xxxxxxx
Hi Delly - I’m ok just haven’t really had the energy to post - also bored rigid posting about my ailments !!! Having a better week this week so hoping I’ve turned a corner ???
It’s not always full of joy and romance when you are married !!!
How are you doing Belle ? Hope you have had a better week . After a good couple of weeks the last one has been a stinker for me .Have work issues hanging over me which I think is having an impact plus hormones seem to be doing their worst at the moment .If only progress was steady rather than like a rollercoaster . Should find out today or early next week what’s happening with work which hopefully will take some pressure off one way or another .GP thinks my issues re leaden limbs are due to anxiety -adrenaline taking its toll on my muscles - hope I am getting near the top of the list for a full body transplant .?
Well my employers decided they couldn’t wait any longer for me to get well so they terminated my contract after 26 years - part of me is relieved ,part of me angry and tempted to go down and paint rude words in spray paint in the office wall .?
On the grounds that I won’t be well enough to return to work in an acceptable timeframe .I can appeal but don’t know if it is worth the stress.Time for a new start doing a less stressful less health impacting job ?
They will give me 3 months pay in lieu of notice .
Hopefully something on the horizon that will not sapp me of all mental and physical energy like this job - 26 years is long enough working under constant stress .
Tax free -that would be a help .I would be happy to do anything working with people but less stressful .
Yes will give me some breathing space -just want to get well then will look at what happens next.
I hope so Helena .???
Hi Jill,
Just to send hugs & loads of best wishes your way. As Helena & Belle have said, maybe there could be sliver lining here as your employers have had 26 years of you & & the stress of it all before can now be put behind you.
Just a thought, but is retirement on medical grounds a possibility?
ann x
Thanks Ann .they won’t give me retirement on health grounds unless I have exhausted all treatment options and can get someone ( a psychiatrist ) to say I won’t ever get well enough to go back to work!
Yes Belle ,hopefully a blessing in disguise but I will still need to earn some money at some point .
No - not at this point - they would want me to have at least 6 months of CBT before anyone could say that .