Hi Freddie , Barbara and Sharon ,
Glad we have all come togther , someone told me I will gain a whole set of new friends during this journey and Im starting to agree its just helps to know there’s otheres going through it with you …
By the way im the one that cant spell or type so bare with me …lol even using my sons lap top …dont tell him !!!
Its moving quickly now ,but I went for tests over 1 year ago and was told it showed nothing I was told it was a breast abcess returned to Docs over and over given creams antibio ect asked to be re refured in Oct as now found lump told again no it was lymp infected until rushed in hospital in terrible pain within a week told got BC grade 3 …
Any way Ill deal with that issue when im strong enough too …
I need all my strength to deal with cemo on friday . I was told I will do 6 sessions on fec-t I think all very confusing I think they said 3 goes with the red drug that makes your wee red !!! and the dreaded hair loss and then 3 on the othere drug that they say is not as bad …
Barbara chemo is the scariest part for me so just reading that you have not been to bad really helps have you felt sick ect ? Are you using the cold cap ( stop hair loss I was told )
Freddie ,I know what you mean about age I was the only one in waiting room with out grey hair lol… As I was so scared my husband tryed to make me laugh by saying they though it was him that had C , as his a bald as a badger …It helped a bit …
Sharon they said I would have radiotherepy after the chemo so think Im in for the long hall ( stage 3 with all lymps pos except 1 !!!)
The mastectomy was not that bad for me but I was in so much pain for so long id of tuck it off myself if I could , One bc nurses said to me "its not your friend any more get rid " I think thats one way of coming to turmes with it . Dont worry to much about getting so upset by it all , I think every one on here will have done the same at some time during all this more that once …
What I hate is when some one says " Im so sorry to hear your bad news , im so sorry "
Still thinking of something witty to say back that will make them smile because thats what im trying to do …
Any way look forward to your replys better go my husbands starting to think id rather be on here that sitting talking to him …lol
Lisa xxx Let you know how friday goes , getting long hair cut shorter 2 morro just in case …