New to BC and in need of some help/advice on how to accept

Hi i was diagnosed the end of may,dates i cant remember as still giong through the shock as u,have had surgery 2 wks ago and am awaiting results this thursday.u need to think only of you at the moment,make sure just incase all is done then if the worsed happens there’s a plan.ive got my results of sentinal node biopspy on thursday to see if i need chemo or radiotheraphy,am keeping my fingers crossed although they dont tell u about the affeects on ur body of early memopause etc,live by my self but coping ok,just waiting to see how much the treatment takes it out on me,all i worry about is how my dogs will be if the shit happens but ive laid plans for them,there’s nothing else i can do but prepare and hope

been to the hospital today ,going in again on tuesday for full node removal,looking foward to that,possibly chemo after that,already got my bandana sorted

HI taybar i had a full node clearence aswell because they looked suspicious when they operated but thankfully they all came back clear after although im still having chemo 6 x fec ( onto no. 4) because it was grade 3 and 2.6 cms and my age they said its my extra insurance . so when you know what you having and need any advice just give me a message on here take care hope everything goes well and im sure you’ll be just fine just keep positive and your sense of humour and take each day at a time xxxx hugs julie

Hi Ladies
Sorry yu have had to join us on this forum. I was diagnsd Mid May and have had my second FEC today.

When I first found out I was concerned that a lot of ladies treatments were different to mine, and my imagination went haywire. spoke to my Ong and he assured me that thre is no such thing as a 'set course of treatment’we must bear in mind everyones treatment is different, depending on location, size etc etc. It is all about getting to the next stage, monitor, tests and then move forward eg I have 3 x FEC then 3 X taxitere and my mastectomy Mid Nov. whereby some ladies have already had their ops and now on chemo. This forum is fab and really picks me up. remember stay positive eat healthy foods and drink plenty of water. there is another forum “Top tips to help get you through Chemotherapy” which was really useful
Luv and hugs to all of you
Trace x