Thanks Penny 
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Dear Nannabee
That is such a kind message from you. I do appreciate it so much.
Love Seagulls
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Yes I understand what you are saying. It does seem like this lady would have benefited from more one to one support. It could be something the MF course could consider such as having 2 volunteers so that one could take people to one side if needed and the other can stay with the group.
It is difficult, I have met with ladies with very low grade bc had surgery and radiotherapy and treatment done in a few months, whereas I was HER2+ and needed 18 months of treatment including chemo. Our experiences were very different but they are more anxious than me.
I would highly recommend feedbacking to BCN.
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My class did have another volunteer as well ss facilitator, plus a nurse representing the hospital, not a BCN but a support worker who looks after the general welfare of breast cancer patients, i think she was Macmillan funded. So it obviously varies from place to place.
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I was dignosed with tnbc in december 2024, im 32, ive heard the im lucky remark many times as i started chemo end of jan 2025 and after 2 cycles my tumor has shrunk a decent amount, no one can tell you your lucky what you are and have been through isnt lucky, your courage is what is driving you, your the capitain, your the person who is kicking cancers butt, yes it may come back… but i believe you will rock on and have a long happy life 
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Welcome to the forum that nobody wants to join but you will find so much help and support.
I so sorry to hear of your diagnosis at such a young age but your attitude is great.
I wanted to signpost you to some links that might be helpful. There is a monthly chemo starters group to get support from others having chemo at the same time as you. Here’s the January 2025 group.
BCN also have a section for younger women under 45
- Younger Women Together: For people 45 and under. You can choose the support that suits you: online, one day or 2 day residential events. Find an event.
Take care
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