I am glad i noticed this thread…
I was DX 2009 (so 4 years ago now, but surgery was only completed in July of this year).
It has been a real roller coaster, but i feel the worst is over now.
For a long time, i felt very very angry and sad. Now i have moments of fear and anxiety. Is this normal?
I am not exactly sure what i am scared of.But it is something about knowing that life really is very fragile and no-one is immortal. I know the story could have been a very different one, but it wasn’t and i am here, with my OH and 2 children, who are now nearly 9 and 5.5.
I am thinking that this fear has been buried under the other emotions and at the moment, of all things, driving scares me. I have to drive and i do drive (albeit short distances) but before i get in the car, i feel sick and heart races.
I have NEVER experienced this before, so i hope it passes? I am guessing no-one has experienced this?
I think that once again, it is to do with putting myself in a situation where my life could be threatened (in the car) even though i am no more at risk now, than before DX.
The other thing, is that although reconstruction was a must for me and i now have a lovely lovely PS, i sometimes quite cannot believe that i had to have so many ops post MX. That the recon is forever, because it reminds me of bad times.
I want it all to be further from my mind, if you see what i mean?. For months i would fight to make it go away and of course it never did. Now i am learning to accept what happened but i still feel very anxious and scared at times.
Naz xxx