Hi all/anyone…
I have dropped by to just vent. There are times when only venting will do because if we don’t, then we simply crash and burn.
When BCN said they were willing to have a page just for men with breast cancer, I thought great, a place to talk and share the isolation that breast cancer brings with it in men.
We are a small band of brothers under 400 a year diagnosed each year. Yet even less of those men, come forward looking for peer support. Mainly because they don’t know it exists, and also the alienation they feel, drives them further underground or reluctant to talk.
I recently in June joined another club I didn’t really chose to join
Stage 4 Breast Cancer……
I thought maybe I could partake in groups more in touch with the anguish that diagnosis brings with it.
Sadly I feel even more marginalised than ever.
If I comment on a post, it’s because I have something to say, an opinion a version of my events.
I feel if I write a post, it’s hard for ladies to reply. Nobody wants to be seen as the person always responding to the lone bloke in a forum,
If I comment on a post I do so to offer mutual support to a fellow sufferer of a disease I too have.
I thought it was lonely in 2019 when first diagnosed ,it’s a darn site more lonely now.
If your reading this know I’m venting, it’s in my head so I need to say it….
Forums are based on people with commonality sharing views and opinions , offering peer support advice or suggestions…
Please please please don’t think because as a man I have nothing to say because believe me I have an awful lot to say……sad thing is no one seems to listen….because they certainly don’t reply…
Vent over
Tomorrows another day
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