hi everyone
swine flue been diagnosed in a few of our schools. scarey isnt it? i must admit i dont give it another thought itsm like everything you always think its not going to happen to you.
youngest son just took up boxing hes 14, he had a mood on him the smorning which is unusual, and he thumped a door put a hole in it, so now hes in debt till he pays for new one
not been up to much today, took mum to have injection in her eye, yak. glad thats not me.
take care x
Just to let you know that Tommy (Angie’s husband) has posted an update on her on “Has anyone heard from Vertangie”. Unfortunately it is not good news.
Thanks redders, have just read it myself and not good news, what a dreadful shame but from her previous postings it did sound as if she was still having many problems. I will be adding to the other post.
Nicky x
Hi Ladies
By now you’ve probably read Tommy’s post and it all sounds very scary and worrying for them both. I’m not going to add much more than that as I think we will all feel the same about how things are going for Angie and all just hope she is as comfortable as she can be and gets as much help as is needed.
I’ll post again later or tomorrow but don’t want to trivialise things with my normal drivel.
Take care
Nicky xx
Help!! how do I get on Tommy’s post? I am useless at this stuff but really want to know what is happening although from your comments it doesn’t sound too good.
Julia
XXX
Forget the above - have now engaged brain - most unusual - and have found it!!!
I’ve posted the link, like many of you I have followed Angies threads and read her hints and advice for some time.
M x
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Hi,
just too sad to think of our buddy down again. Ok I can only think of sad things or swearing my head off
So hugs everyone
Lily x x
Hi: I guess by now we have all read Tommy’s posting – how desperately sad. Being with her at the end must have been so painful for him but he was there for her as he has been all the way through.
I have been flipping thru this thread and cannot believe it was only February when Angie was diagnosed – so short a time. Really slows you down and makes you very aware of how precious our time is – we can all cheer at our current status but it is so fragile.
Let’s all have a good weekend and I know we will be thinking about Tommy and the lovely Angie.
LOL
Julia
Such a sad day, losing our buddy.
Hugs everyone
Lily x
hi everyone
anyone finding there trying to catch up on diy jobs left from last year, i seem to be noticing all the things that need doing at the moment, but dont intend to spend all my spare time getting them done. did some painting yesterday, but cant achieve too much in one day.
fishing show with hubby and son tommorow, i dont even fish, but hubby wanted me to go, and how could i refuse? he really knows how to treat a women!
still feeling sad when i think of angie, so upsetting even though wed never met, somehow we all feel close in spirit.
how would we have got through this ordeal without each other? i wonder x
hi everyone
“Men, whod have them!” mine just been and brought a new camera, we have two digital ones already, but no there not good enough.
never mind we need a new hoover and tumble dryer, so it doesnt matter if our clothes are wet, or the carpet doesnt get hoovered , as long as we can take pictures.]
im not really too bothered cos if i cant dry the clothes i cant do the ironing, and never in to see carpet anyway, just will never understands mens mentality.
feel better now ive got that of my chest!
x
Hi,
thanks for keeping us chugging along Lorraine. My Victor bought himself a £300 camera and then surprised me with a £59 bargain as I had commented that I didn’t have one. I think he was scared I was going to use his!It is a great camera though (mine) 10.2 pixels and not tricky to use 
Thinking of you all
Love
Lily x
Hi,
you might like to check Tommy’s site as he has put a lot about Angie up. It is lovely but very sad. Made me feel close to her
Lily x
Hi all
Just logged on after a weekend of computer free, so devastated about Angie, its so sad but it was obvious she was suffering and I think she’s passed how she would have wanted to!
R.I. P. Angie - love you, miss you xx
Hope everyone bearing up! xx
hi everyone
just come in from a day at cambridge, called in supermarket on way home. weve got our eldest son with us, and hubby is going mad at the shopping bill, he gives us 35pound and hubby is always moaning about it at moment. its getting me down to be honest.
i find my moods could easily be effected at moment, they can just take it in their stride, another side effect of tamoxifen.
anyway i will have to keep working on myself and let go of their problems,hope your all doing ok.
take care x
Hi,
well first day at home for the summer, so annoyed to still wake up early. Went to collect our travel tickets, ordered currency, ordered all the medicines we will need, bought hubby’s birthday presents and checked our insurance to make sure we are covered for oink - we are. Discovered woof’s innoculations were overdue and going into kennels soon so dashed him to the vet. Poor old chappy needs to have an op when we get back to remove a large fatty lump wrapped round his back hip joint. Told he will have a dent where the tissue has gone and a drain - it was all feeling rather familiar at this point. I am sure my boob is getting slightly smaller over time and pondering over asking for lipofil. It is slight and you would have to be in the zone to notice but I am encouraged by the removal of fat from other parts!A friend is having that soon so will see what she says about it. I don’t see the surgeon till Oct so I have time to see if things change. I see the onc this week as still on 12 week checks. Had blood taken today, a bit stingy and seems to bleed more each time. I think they get the same spot every time as it is a bit crunchy now. arggh. Wrote lots of lesson plans, feeling really good that I have started some of the mountain of work I have to do. Phone rang to say in my absence they have changed books and I now have to change some of them grrr. We have asbestos in our office, apparently of a not very nice at all type too. I seem to be the only one who is bothered about it and I am not going near until some weeks have passed after it is removed. The others all went in on the day it was coming out and sat next door.
Lisa I’m sorry you too came back to the shock of losing Angie. I sent Tommy a pm but sent to Angie’s and now thinking he might have his own?
Lorraine life sounds stressful at yours and 6 weeks more summer hols to go! I think we all find it hard to be bothered by every day matters as we face a much bigger and stark reality. Few people understand the lack of peace of mind. A lot of men seem to focus on money or reducing the spending of it as the main priority. Of course you have to pay your bills and if you don’t have enough it is really bad and stressful and can’t be trivialised but I feel like a fat capitalist pig when MD and baby can’t afford things and we have money in the bank so tend to be very indulgent. Then I try to balance this by giving the same to the other 3 so it multiplies up quickly.When you have worked out how to keep everyone happy, let me know lol
Lily x
Im not totally with it at mo - when do you go on hols Lily? Hope you get a lie in beforehand bless!!! Well I had a weekend of a bit of a diet, lots less booze and bits and pieces - had a major panic as my middle seems swelled but think its just fat, or middle age spread early - my dress I fit into 3 weeks ago no longer fits and Ive lost 1lb??? Gutted as I never wear a dress and took me ages to find but after a quick scramble found another dress, shucks had to buy new shoes again and make some more jewellery but even made myself a fascinator too - roll on the Wedding, its my cousins on Friday and then up wehre we live we have a big Blues Festival - so sore head all round this weekend!
Well off to get on the scales at work 
Lily - I pm Tommy on his own post under in memory and asked when funeral was as if Im available I might try and attend - not sure really
Love to all xxx
Haven’t been on here for a few days and I am so sad for Tommy at the loss of our lovely Angie. I don’t feel I can speak about present events in my life today after learning of this terrible developement. May Angie now be at peace and thinking of her family and friends.
Be back soon.
Love to you all Bev x
Im waiting to hear back from Tommy - so devastated we have lost her - she was such a fighter and packed so much into her life!
Dont know if anyone else is finding this but I always click on the last page of our link and then go back if I havent read the first post, today it keeps making me go to page 10 where the first thing i see is Angie’s wedding photo and a lovely post from her - maybe she’s still with us x