Hi BC Babes (including new friends!)
There has been something wrong with our internet access right across Christmas so I haven’t been able to log on - I was getting withdrawal symptoms!
Had a great Christmas with family and felt well on Christmas day and Boxing day which was just as well because Mum was ill and Hubbie hurt his back and hasn’t been able to move for 4 days! Chiropractor not open until Jan 2nd.
Debbie - hope your new desk is now fixed without your son discovering your extra bit of handywork!
Louise - sorry you had hospital on Xmas eve, what a day for it! Good news that you are sleeping better now. Thinking of you today (27th) hope all is going well, let us know your news.
Maddy - your stickers sound fun, a good sense of humour helps see you though doesn’t it. So sorry to hear about your friend with a Brain Tumor. No matter how much of a nightmare we are all living through there is always someone else worse off isn’t there. How is Benjamin? I bet you had fun in MK.
Lizzie - I had 3cm invasive ductal BC, had a lumpectomy then a mastectomy and have now just started 6 sessions of FEC Chemo. Your postings left me wanting to reach out and cuddle you! Please try not to despair as there are many, many good news BC stories (more good than bad in fact). I really can’t give any more advice than the girls have already given but I do find the Breast Cancer Care helpline really supportive, they are sympathetic and will offer good advice and put perspective to the situation for you - please call them if you haven’t already. I have a 4 year old grandaughter and we have explained that Nanny has a sore boob and I have to visit the hospital for the doctor to make it better but the medicine will sometimes make me sick. She has understood and accepted this - not sure if it helps you but it has worked for us.
Dyzee - so sorry to hear that you have been poorly but hopefully, if my experience is anything to go by, you should have picked up a bit by now? I am feeling ok but my mouth and throat are now getting sore - still no sign of hair falling out yet though! My BC nurse seemed surprised about that at my weekly appointment today. I have definately got to have a Hickman line (oh what joy!) so my next treatment is delayed for a week so that they can fit it. We will therefore probably be getting our second treatments on the same day. Your Christmas rhymn was great and it brought a tear to my eye.
Julie - I am picturing you napping like a baby. My advice is to put your cuppa down first because I know from first hand experience it makes a mess of your clothes if you don’t!
Custard - how are you? What a choice to make, not sure anyone can help you with it as it is so personal. You just have to do your research and weigh up the pro’s and con’s and decide what is right for you. Do you have a partner that you can discuss it with?
Ginge - any more news following scan? My results are above. Looks like you will be a chemo chick at the same time as Dyzee and I (welcome to our little club!).
Well I have rambled enough (but I did have 5 days of catching up to do!).
Thinking of you all, sorry to anyone I haven’t named (too many to remember now, especially for someone with half a brain (Ginge, Custard, Lizzie, you will soon all relate to this!)). Take care everyone, until next time,
Wendy.