Hope all went well with the baby sitting weekend, Katy. I laughed at your empty box!
Are you on half term now, Ali? I just realised, this morning, that it’s half term here next week. That’s the first time, in forever, that a school holiday has arrived unexpectedly… it’s only taken nearly 4 years of retirement! Put your feet up, linger a while on the CBA bench and thoroughly recharge those batteries - without any lurgs, hopefully.
And thank you both for your kind words about my venting.
OH emailed his PD nurse but got an out of office reply. He said she won’t be back until Monday 26th, if he read it/remembered correctly (there’s a first time for everything? ) So that’s 2 more weeks to wait. Ho hum. He’s managing OK, mostly, but still not up to doing much. Some days are worse than others.
I’ve spent the weekend knitting a jacket and leggings for GD’s new doll and sewing a Spiderbear costume - from 2 charity shop t-shirts - for Loofy, as her birthday is next month. She also wants bigger Mini Mouse pjs as she’s outgrown hers and she wants to continue to match Loofy in his. (Thank goodness he doesn’t outgrow his!) The website I got them from only has them left in sizes 6 - 7 and 7 - 8. Oh no! Am I going to have to start again with another set? I emailed the company and, apparently, “more stock will be arriving by the beginning of March”. they arrive in time. I think I might just buy a set in each of the bigger sizes in case they stop making them: Birthday sorted for this and the next 2 years?!
mmm that’s annoying, is there no one else that can issue new meds? Seems a long wait…glad he is doing ok difficult times.
You have been busy doll’s clothes and spiderbear costume woo hoo would have loved those when I was young, was very into dolls etc hahaha. Good idea about jammies hopefully she will still love them in the next 3 years haha.
Yes all went well with GC, we decorated biscuit lollies, painted watched funny videos where we all laughed and laughed, it was good fun. Went to bed early last night exhausted. Slept until 3 this morning read for a little while then fell asleep again so am well rested.
Finally made decision to purchase new curtains, have hated living room and kitchen ones for years and years. Every time I have been looking prices were mind boggling. Living room has big windows down to floor so was checking well known site and spotted thermal blackout curtains for a very good price, woo hoo, ordered Fri night and big pair came on Sat morning, kitchen ones arrive today. Big ones up!
Quiet today, it’s a lovely sunny day but the CBA bench is calling me xx
Goodness, goodness, did go out just for a short while, have been looking for a lamp to put on kitchen table, found one I liked a few days ago and went back to buy, it was gone arrrgh. So saw 2 today hummed and mmmmm’d for ages went down another aisle and found the perfect one, woo hoo brightens whole kitchen area without having to put on big light.
Also found some material for foot stools, I would like to re cover, last one I bought ended up not liking at all so didn’t use.
Am going to need everyone’s fingers and toes crossed for this to be successful hahaha. Help…xx
Ooh! New curtains! How exciting! What colour are they? We have big windows - x2 - in our living room and, back in 2000 (yesterday? ), I spent an eye-watering amount - for us, anyway - on thick, velvet curtains. Had to get them from my catalogue so I could pay in installments! Remember that? Luckily, I still love them and they still look great when closed,although the sun has faded the dark blue to grey on the edges!!
OH has received a survey, through the post, to complete and take with him to his physio appointment next week (grrr, it’s Tuesday this time so I’ve had to rearrange my monthly lunch. Ah well, could have been worse. Could have been Sewing or Ambling which can’t be changed.) The survey is about quality of life with PD. There are about 40 questions to respond to on a five point scale, from “all the time” to “never” based on the last 3 months. Oh good grief! There isn’t a single question to which he could, honestly, tick “never”. (Whether he will be honest, though, is debatable ) It’s really depressing but also somehow validating that yes, it is a sh** disease. Made me shed a tear just reading it and I don’t have to fill it in!
We had sunshine today too. Still cold but so lovely to see a change from the constant damp and grey. Managed to dry the washing outside. Couldn’t persuade OH to go anywhere so I just went for a swim.
Sorry, Ali, reading back, I realise I was a bit previous with my half term comments. It seems we’re earlier - for once! - round here than everywhere else. You can enjoy yours, next week, knowing others are back in school.
Norfolk (GD) are off next week, too, but I still won’t be able to visit. OH now saying PDN is back on 12th, not 26th… That’s today but I don’t know if she’s replied to his email yet…Or if he’s bothered to check!
Why the massive questionnaires?? arrrgh Can they not just ask??
It’s hard to be completely honest because you really don’t want to admit to yourself or others when things are really not that great…easier to not elaborate on paper. Any word about new meds?
Glad you managed your swim, where are you going this time?
Can imagine the expense JCJ, remember someone telling me their curtains were £400 for a small window, shocking. It’s a great buy if you still love them!
Curtains are natural in colour would say they are more biscuit coloured because didn’t want light, light ones. Am feeling a little uncomfortable as they are still pretty creased, says to hang and the creases will fall out, mmmm not sure if I can wait that long but dont want to take them down and try to iron so maybe a hand held steamer?? Will see.
Have done it, both foot stools re covered woo hoo!!!
When I was taking off the original material saw that on the reverse material was bright orange, perfect. Just had to iron new crease and stud them, they are not perfect but am very, very pleased. Made a tablecloth from material purchased so no waste. Been a busy morning. And am not a crafty person…
Out for breakfast tomorrow the one missed last week and am hoping to go along to ED’s later with birthday presents they will be a little early but GS is out on actual birthday and it’s a hit or a miss for GD as she is working after school, so hopefully will catch her tomorrow. Next birthday is July thank goodness, haha.
Was on a video call with YD and heard GS say “Can I have some milk please?” How fabulously wonderful was that?
Absolutely pouring with rain here, yuck xx
I think OH - and perhaps others too? - is more likely to answer honestly to a written questionnaire than in person. He’s less likely to try to impress and or understate his problems. Just like he walks almost normally when Drs are watching; “best behavior walking” his consultant calls it, and then reverts to the usual shambling shuffle straight after!! However, he’s only tackling a few questions at a time and some of those he’s ticked “never”, when I’ve actually seen him experience that issue in the last 3 months. More than once!!
Not heard from PDN, though there was a blocked call from “withheld” this afternoon, which could well have been her. I’ve turned off blocking in the hope she’ll ring again. Trying to persuade OH to look in his paperwork and find her number and ring her. It’s tempting to just do it but I know that will annoy him… as it would me if roles were reversed!!
Swimming Flamborough Head to Spurn Point now. 50 miles. 80.5km. 9km already swum.
Can you boil a kettle and wave it at your curtains?
Hurrah for GS’s speech developing in leaps and bounds.
Heard on the news tonight that Colin Firth’s shirt, from THAT lake scene, is being auctioned. It’s expected to fetch £thousands. It made me LOL and remember our Benchland antics. I’m sure it would only be worth that much if it was still sopping wet. With him in it!!
Tree surgeons came today and pruned our fruit trees. At last. The bits I couldn’t reach have been driving me nuts for months. Nay, years!! They were lucky because it was warm and dry this morning. Chucking it down again now though. He said they’ve been so busy clearing storm damaged trees in awful weather.
Nearly there, Ali. Have a good, restful week off with NO LURGS!
Think that it’s super hard to admit what’s really happening hence the “never” moments. They will prob see through the answers especially with OH attending there.
Hopefully you have heard now??
50 miles? That’s pretty far be the channel next wearing that shirt…
Hurrah for the tidy trees, perfect no rain while they were there. Been raining here forever today we have sunshine and am staying in, typical.
Had a very nice catch up yesterday with aunt and cousin, we loved our breakfast haha.
Had a couple of things to do in town afterwards heard my phone ping and there was a message saying that delivery from chariot company would arrive by afternoon. Was very excited then paused and thought they had better not be sending old one back??? Package arrived it’s a brand new one hurrah, very pleased. Stuff back in basket and other one in cupboard. Won’t have to worry because now have a spare.
Did go along to ED’s no GD but GS opened his gifts, he was very excited which was lovely to see. Arrived home later than planned so had a very easy dinner, nipped into shop and bought prawns on the way home.
Well couldn’t do it “the waiting game” for creases and wrinkles to fall out, hand held steamer zapped curtains this morning looks great, kitchen ones are fab, no creases, living room ones have a very small amount which I can live with haha, so it’s turned out a good buy. Tried a blouse as well and it’s good anything not to iron haha.
Am exhausted now, on the CBA bench for a long, long time in fact prob all day xx
Made it, it’s finally here, half term. Planning to sleep for the week! I am exhausted.
I think you’re right jcj that your OH is more likely to be more honest on paper. You don’t consider the reaction of the reader.
Oh Katy how nice a brand new chariot, let’s hope this one is more reliable.
Well I’m off to bed now, that’s it
Whispering so I don’t disturb Ali whose snoozing on the K bench.
I’ve already swum the channel - admittedly not in CF’s shirt!
Virtual swims - or rather, real swims in virtual places… or something - so far over the last 10+ years:
The Channel - 22 miles
Loch Ness - 24 miles
Loch Lomond - 24 miles
Round Guernsey - 30 miles
Round Jersey - 45 miles
River Anker - 31 miles
Lake Windermere - 11.2 miles
Around Isle of Wight - 56 miles
Yorkshire Coast Redcar to Flamborough Head - 62.2 miles
Wow! Shove up on the K bench, Ali, I’m exhausted just reading that! But I’m glad I kept a record because it’s good to feel the weekly swims have “achieved” something, other than exercise, obviously, even if it is only pretend.
Spiderbear costume is finished. I hope Loofy’s head is the same size and shape as Ashy’s because the mask is TIGHT!!
Couldn’t face eating my dinner tonight as my stomach is giving me jip. Probably shouldn’t have had beans on toast for lunch after last night’s chips.
I’ll curl my legs up to give you some room. I didn’t sleep very well last night, I have a cpaps machine for sleep apnea and part of my face mask has split and is hissing. I got worried about going to sleep and stopping breathing, which is silly because I managed it before the machine, I’ve only had it for 6 months. I’ve got some tape now and that should fix it until I phone the breathing department (that’s not right, can’t think of it’s correct name, too tired) on Monday.
Spiderbear’s costume is great, I wish I could make things. I’m sure your granddaughter will love it.
How’s the new chariot Katy?
I’m off to mend my mask and then hopefully to sleep
Ali hopefully mask is not hissing and you have managed a temp fix. Hope you are also feeling rested and able to enjoy your time off.
New chariot fine, did recommend to another lady a while ago so have warned her to keep an eye on wheels. Like the spare one because it is very, very light so will prob swap around.
Wowee JCJ never realised you had “done” so many swims, goodness so fit.
Good OH allowed you to make call fingers crossed it’s soon.
Aaah really cute jumper and baby loofy.
GD’s birthday today, woo hoo, can’t believe she is now 17…
43 mins dialling and redialling doc’s this morning managed to obtain a phone appt, spoke to very nice doc who I now have an appointment in person with… double woo hoo!!!
He thought it ridiculous I have not been seen in person for a long time, so grateful, nothing serious but need a check.
Out with friends for lunch yesterday so we now know almost complete story of friends BC. Lump in other breast being treated with chemo tablets. Lump has almost flattened after 3 weeks tablet taking. Radio to collarbone they discovered bone mets. She will be checked next week to see what’s what. She is looking good and feeling very positive. She was very forthcoming so that’s great because she was so quiet before.
GS decided he was not going on school bus on Fri and yesterday, school said let him be on Fri, on Sunday evening Mum was telling him school tomorrow etc and he kept asking why? (Laughed when she sent me a video) Had a meltdown on bus Mon, contacted school and they asked if she could bring him in. He went in pretty happily so school contacted YD later and said on Tues they would deliver the other children to school, bus would come back for GS with teacher on board. He went on bus no bother this morning, they think it might be too noisy on bus for him even though he is wearing his ear defenders. Thinking how wonderful school is, makes my heart happy. Not sure if they will try this for a couple of days, will find out later.
No rain today!! xx
Hurrah for sympathetic Dr and an actual appointment. Hope everything is good.
Also, well done GS’s school and going the extra mile - literally! - to keep him happy. I hope a long term solution is found. A relief that it’s not school that is the problem?!
Physio appointment today (OH, not me). 1pm appointment. Arrived at 12:45 and Hallelujah! A choice of FOUR disabled spaces in the car park - and several others. A miracle! Must remember that, in future. Even for a 2pm appointment, even though the pay machines have finally been fixed: I’d rather pay for an extra hour than have the stress! I had packed him a lunch but he was too wound up to eat it before. I had lunch in the PALS cafe, while I waited for him, and then we stopped in a cafe, on the way home for lunch/a Danish pastry for me (they warmed it up!! ) Amazing: that’s the first time we’ve had lunch - or even a cuppa - out in absolutely aaaages! His packed lunch is in the fridge for tomorrow.
While we were in the cafe, he got a call from PDN to say his meds have been agreed and we’ll be contacted by the hospital when they are ready to collect from the pharmacy there. (Madness? I know consultant has to prescribe it but why can’t they just send it, electronically, to our usual chemist? ) Still, it’s worth the trek, the parking hassle and the inevitable long wait in the hospital pharmacy if it gets our lives back a bit nearer to “normal”.
I was amazed that OH coped with the phone call, whilst eating, in a fairly crowded cafe, with music playing. I thought I’d have to take over. Perhaps the physio exercises are helping? Or maybe he’s just relieved that the new meds are coming. he stays this much more positive